to want to love anybody, but not having anybody to love....
to want something to dream, but having nothing to dream of....
to be so full of desires, but non having the chance to fulfil any....
2007-07-26 03:21:23 · 20 answers · asked by ClaJ 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
What you have stated stems from the knowledge and acceptance of your own worth and value yet having no direction in which to exert it.
Having no destination in mind makes it difficult to begin the journey. much akin to revving your engine in the driveway with no place to go.
Take heart in the fact that you already know your value and need only the patience to eventually meet the one who will see in you what you already know exists.
Goals and dreams are elusive things as not so much in an of them selves but the validation we acquire from being able to project our desires, wishes, and hopes upon or with another we deem worthy. Lets face it not "anybody" will do. There has to be some level of chemistry you are willing to accept and work from there.
Accept and take heart in the FACT that you are not alone in this feeling as many seek to love and no one, with what they feel is precious little prospects of finding one.
Concentrate on your interests and pursue them and you will find there will come one who sees you for who you are and what you have to offer a couplehood. l refrain from saying relationship as it seems to be somewhat of an all encompassing title where a couplehood is you and your partner both recognizing each others value worth and entitlement of respect acceptance and tolerance.
Remember that love is nothing more then friendship on fire.
2007-07-26 05:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by G P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's possible. There are things that we yearn for in life that may not be available at the present. But it doesn't mean that we'll never have the chance to have it. But from the sound of it, you need to know what your purpose in life is -- then you'll know what it is that you want to dream of and what desires do you want to fulfill in life and how to go about it.
2007-07-31 15:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by anaknivictoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take one step at the time. Pick one top desire of yours, and dream about it in all details possible. Not necessarily while asleep. Colours, sounds, smells... Soon you will know how to get it. And if its love you are seeking, you will have your question answered. Yes, it is possible.
2007-07-26 11:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely,...i have been asking similar questions. I think in life we all contemplate certain things and yet they don't happen...either we don't go with our head/heart or the opportunity never arises. Sometimes circumstances or other people do not allow us to take the action we want/should...but what's important to remember is that- do not dwell on the past nor what could have been but instead look at your present and make changes so you may feel positive about your future. i find to have hope & faith in God gets me through things.
2007-08-01 19:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by shaani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible as long as you put it on hold. The point is to do something about it.
2007-08-02 03:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by VelvetRose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, sounds like a stage of the depression to me.
2007-08-02 08:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by cmilja m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, if you just want to sit there moping.
Or you could get off your a*** and try to do something about it.
2007-07-26 10:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by HeckZane 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I think that I know someone like that. It is exactly how they explain what they are feeling...
2007-07-26 10:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by jebaUK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible yes!
2007-07-26 10:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by Wide Awake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, all of the above.
Do something in your life , everyone has chances but they just don't see them.
2007-08-01 07:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by Drunvalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋