a friend of mine is blamed for something he has not done(i know him personally and trust him) now he is feeling depressed and i want to help him. but the blamer(the person who is blaming is quite sure that my friend is guilty.) I is a perplexed situation and want to help my friend.
footnote: the crime(not serious) but pertains to ones charater(image).
2007-07-26 02:11:43 · 3 answers · asked by santosh f 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Gossipping oftens ends up with a dilemma similar to yours. For the most, it is a hard thing for people to get over. A lot tend to harbor a prolonged dislike for a person, even if he or she was a close and dear friend. Unless your friend can prove his or her innocence, then go by the old saying of, "time will heal" and allow the process to mend itself. Be of good cheer, forgive, and learn to move on. It is a lot healthier that way, both physically and mentally. Be blessed for thy good works !
2007-07-26 02:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should probably talk to the blamer, and let him/her know that your friend is innocent. You may also want to talk to your other friends, to let them know that your friend is not to blame. In these types of situations, talking to people is the best way to resolve a problem, especially since this seems to be a misunderstanding.
2007-07-26 09:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sanaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand your pain I work with someone who thy said he stole a lot of money and there no why could have done it I never saw so many lie's in the courtroom he got 17 months I know this off the mark but have your friend check everything before it court
2007-07-26 09:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by paulcondo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋