If you could really have your time over again what would u do differently or change?

Answer 1

Nothing. Even though I went through some really hard crap growing up and as a young adult I took something away from each situation. All of those somethings make up who I am today. I don't regret anything that I have ever done or been through. I think of them all as learning experiences. The pain and hurt made me stronger. Being alone taught me to rely on myself. Getting divorced twice made me ready for the third time. (been with third hubby for 14 years) I wouldnt want to relive all of these things but I wouldn't want to have not experienced them either. I am proud of the woman I have became and I don't think that I would be as strong, loving, caring and open without at first suffering.

Answer 2

I think while living in the present, we tend to take things for granted a whole lot more and look at what we COULD have rather than what we have. However, when we look back at the past, I for one think: 'Instead of enjoying what I had, I tried to get more'.
So back then, I guess I was very young and naive my eyes weren't yet fully open. So, I would want to live over the exact same life but with more experience, beliefs, answers...So that when I come to the decisions of which I made mistakes, naturally I have less chance of repeating them.
But most of all, I would just love to live my childhood - because I didn't really have one. I was a kid who sat listening to the adults rather than playing on the swings with the other children. I can see how the lack of socialising with other children has left its mark, as I'm not that confident a person. In effect of that, I am restricted of doing some of the things I love. For example; Performing speeches and plays, dancing, singing - anything which involves people watching me!
I'm only 14 now but I am proud to say that I don't really have any regrets as such, just things that I could have done better.
Thank You
& Take Care! :-)

Answer 3

If I was given a chance to relive my life, I would not attempt to change anything I have I have now, however, I would like to act differently. I would not change the things in my life, but I will change the way I have them.

If I was given a chance to relive my life, I would like to have same things, would like to make the same decisions, take the same turns into or out of situations, read the same book, watch the same movies, but then I would try to do everything differently, in a better way, with full determination, certainty, composure and resolve I my mind and faith in my heart.

I have noticed that in this life I have fallen victim to disbelief and uncertainty many times; so many times I have been overwhelmed by situations and circumstances only to be left bereft of all hope and good expectations. I have realised that when I do things haphazardly, unsurely or half-heartedly, I often make the mess of things both good or bad – you do not need bad things alone to bring trouble to you, as good things done badly can spell ever greater troubles. I will not let all this to happen to me all over again. I will believe in myself and have full faith in my instinctive abilities and instincts and natural inclination.

A new chance, therefore, would be an opportunity for me to live again to make the best of the life as I already have. I believe in the philosophy that it is not the best is not what you should seek, but what you make out of what you have and whatever you may find.

Answer 4

Not much, i have lived and am living a pretty good life.
Bad things have happened but ive learnt from those trials and they are now part of the person i am today.

If anything, i have a few lost friendships that i would not let go so easily again if i was given the chance to change it...
And i would love more easily and more openly, being less afraid of being hurt

Answer 5

well, for starters, i wished i had done better in my studies when i was in high school. i just feel that i should have focused more on my studies rather than on my friends. but i am feeling wonderful today that i just can't help but forget this and feel good about what's going on in my life now, that every little detail in my life was supposed to be there. i would change nothing except my notion of time. i wished i had given time more importance back then, so that now that i'm in coollege, i hope not that every second, every minute of everyday i do something good and productive, and i hope for time to slow down a little, so i can enjoy it before i step into the real world. =)

Answer 6

What if?
I would have tried to find out, what if... More often than I did.
Instead of just thinking it.
If I had my time over again I would change loads and do things quite differently.
I wonder if I would have survived 'till now, though.

Examples:
What if I'd got better educated?
What if I'd not been so shy and had asked her out?
What if I'd swam the channel?
What if I'd followed my dreams?

What if people could really find out? Would they have the courage to do so?

Answer 7

When I look back every bad thing that happened forced me to do something else that eventually had a positive effect on my life. There are many things I would like to forget but not redo. What doesnt kill us makes us stronger etc....

Answer 8

Only small things since all my faults tought me a lesson for life and at the time being I was "Sure" to do the right thing!

Answer 9

i would have joined the airforce at 15 ( which u can do where i live ) and went and lived in the barracks ( which i almost did ) . instead of wasting those years of my life on drug addiction and other destructive behaviours . i am not pro-military at all , but i honestly think i would have been better off.

Answer 10

you can do all them things you want now ,never go back look forward live your life to the max. life's not made of wishes.( just thought i,d give u a boost)