Are good lovers made and not born? Can you train, teach and/or turn someone into a better lover?

Answer 1

Good lovers are created by experience! Since there are so many things to try out such as positions, toys, etc., most people learn from experimenting and passing what feels good onto their partners and maybe that partner (should the relationship end) will show their new partner and so on. THE BEST RULE OF THUMB IS: know how to satisfy your partner firstly and lastly. This will bring you the knowledge that you were the one that caused them to feel good and in turn they will make you feel good. Be creative, don't forget to let your lover know what feels good to you and be sure she lets you know what feels good to her. The key word here is - COMMUNICATE!

There's nothing wrong with wanting to satisfy yourself but always keep in mind that it takes two to tango and if both of you know what pleases and turns your partner on, then you'll have a great thing going!

Answer 2

Hell yeah - anyone can be taught everyone has a different grades

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and then ofcourse you get the odd students that fail as a lover

Answer 3

time and patience is all key dont make the other feel embarrassed or as if tehy arent adequate, but comfortable and to enjoy what you do together. if theyre scared or ashamed it will never work. but yes you can teach.

Answer 4

as long as you don't have major differences on major areas then I beleive love should be patient to teach and the other to learn in due time

Answer 5

Absolutely, there are tons of books out there on the subject, and like anything else, then you need to practice to perfect it.

Answer 6

Experience is the best teacher!!

Answer 7

thats what I heard

Answer 8

it cant be taught