2007-07-24 19:28:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A second marriage isn't necessary, but that doesn't mean someone can't get married a second time. I found an absolutely wonderful man for my second (which is my current) DH. The first marriage wasn't a "trial run", sometimes things happen beyond your control. My current DH was a widower.
In response to RAYS GIRL - so, if your husband committed bigamy like my first husband did, you would stay? I think not... try not to be so judgmental when you don't know the reason why someone had to get a divorce, and just be glad that they found love a second time.
2007-07-24 20:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 26 years and divorced recently and I think the only time apart from really being in love that a second marriage is necessary is when you feel that it is the final step in moving on and having total closure of the last life. Some of us need to be totally cut from the previous life and a new last name can do just that for some of us.
2007-07-25 03:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by denniseanne60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people only get married because they love each other, want to be together for a long time,.... or any other reason... but never out of neccesity.
Especially not for a Divorcee :-D
2007-07-25 02:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, alot of people realize after a first failed marriage that marriage isnt for them.. and if its not for them, then no one should ever be able to force you into something ur heart isnt into , marriage is hard enough when u go into it whole heartedly..
2007-07-25 03:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if u find true love, u know how the last marriage failed. We are supposed to learn from our mistakes..Good Luck
2007-07-25 02:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooo, sometimes second marriages are the best one!!!
Good luck!
2007-07-25 02:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by mimi72 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you find a better person than the first one!!
2007-07-25 02:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and apparently the first one wasn't necessary either.
2007-07-25 02:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by Leather and Lace 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Depends. If you really want it, you think he loves you and you love him too, go for it.
2007-07-25 02:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be? Unless you're hopelessly co-dependent.
2007-07-25 02:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by classic1957gal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋