i took her back the other times but told myself enough is enough but its been a while since we broke up and she hasnt dated anyone else yet and still shows me affection she seems like she changed but i dont know if i can take that chance again any advice
2007-07-24 17:45:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
depends, are you willing to be cheated on for the 5th time? you must not love yourself enough. why be miserable all over again?
2007-07-24 18:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say don't do it. I was in a situation like this once and took the guy back over and over, and yet each time was the same thing. She is a repeatitive cheater, and therefor if she's done it all the other times chances are she will probably do it again. It seriously is not worth the heartache or time. Letting go is one of the hardest things to do but in the end you will be happy you did. If you are a good person and didnt give her a reason to cheat, then move on. Save yourself from that anxiety and wonderment of if she will do it again.
2007-07-25 00:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by Shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wants another chance to cheat on you again? If you take her back this time, you might as well accept that she will never be faithful to you. If the cheating had just occurred once, I might suggest you give her another chance. But FOUR TIMES!!! This woman does not love you, anyone can see that. She doesn't even respect you enough not to sleep around on you every chance she gets. Seriously, if you get back together with her....you have no right to complain when she does it for the fifth time.
2007-07-25 15:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we think with our heart and not our mind. The first time she cheated on you well maybe that could of been a mistake, but any of the times after that was your mistake. Once you let her know that this was acceptable behavior (and you did by taking her back) then there would be no reason for her to stop. You already let her know that you would keep taking her back. Did you ever here the saying "actions speak louder than words"? well her actions are speaking louder than her words. good luck
2007-07-25 01:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are a kind soul, cheated on you 4 times and you are considering giving her another chance.
Maybe she had changed this time but give yourself some time to think hard before making the final decision.
Good luck and all the best to you.
2007-07-25 00:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Charlyn Lim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay 4 times and you want to know if you should take her back? how about she probably likes the fact that she can walk all over you when she is cheating. keep it moving without her, don't you think you deserve someone who will respect you. the least she could have done was break up with you instead of cheating, is this the kind of woman you want in your life?
2007-07-25 00:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by lynnette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I wouldnt even go there because she has cheated on you four times and it doesnt sound like she appreciates you very much. It seems like he has some commitment issues and you need to let her go and hopefully it'll teach her she can't cheat in a relationship. Since shes cheating, the relationship is a dishonest one at that and you don't need someone like that in your life any longer.
2007-07-25 00:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jesse M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't consider it. She has cheated, and, not regretted it enough to not do it again. A repeat cheater can't change. There are plenty of women out there that would respect and appreciate you enough to not cheat.
Just my 2 Cents.
2007-07-25 00:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please DON'T take her back. She thinks you're a chump. No one she cheated with wants her. They kicked her to the curb after the sex and now she's running back to you because she knows she can. The average man has no respect for a woman who cheats with them and is only in it for the easy sex. Why would you want their left overs? Get rid of her once and for all. You deserve better. Even the guys she cheated with knows she's a tramp. Four times? Please! Of course she's being nice to you, thats a part of her game to lure you back. Change direction. I know you can.
2007-07-25 00:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a firm believer of second chances. But 4 times????! What are the chances of her being faithful now? I say NO!
2007-07-25 00:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋