How can I stand up for myself?This girl is unbelievable and totally imbairrassed me!She is mean AND UGLY AND WHEN i WAS AT MY BALLET STUDIO SHE KICKED ME WITH HER POINTSHOE!It left me with a brooze for a week and and I really wanted to tell on her,but I knew that would show a sign of weekness!How do I get this girl of my back!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-24 16:51:03 · 9 answers · asked by ReignbowBrite13 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Next time she does something or says something, Just look at her a laugh, Shes ugly and immature. And that's something to laugh about! Besides laughing at her will make her feel stupid! And if she trys pulling the card where she says something like "What are you laughing at?" Look at her and say " OMG, your so immature, you really need to grow up!" And trust me she'll feel stupid.
Hang in there, and remember your better then that petty crap!
2007-07-24 17:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she confronts you again and tries to hurt your feelings... look at her ...pause...and laugh (but don't make urself look fake), then turn back around to the person you were with and continue talking to him/her like nothing happend. If she tries to get your attention once more by yelling at you or attempting to insult you, look at her laugh and smile and go to the person next to you and say something like "How sad! Let's go somewhere else!" If she tries to bring up the incident where she kicked your leg, either stick your thumb up and put a fake smile and look away straight away and put an unimpressed facial expression or just say to her "nobody likes you!" and continue on with whatever you are doing or just walk away. And if the stupid ugly cow continues to annoy you, ignore her because she ain't worth it! If she puts that much effort she must really be jealous or envious of you and probably has no life. How Saddddd!!! You must be a really special person for her to spend her time trying to hurt you. You are a millions times more better than her....remember that. She's just pathetic!
2007-07-24 22:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you can, try not being by her at the barre, floor work, etc so that you're out of distance in case she decides to kick you again. I know it sounds stupid, but this may help solve some of the problem. If she goes to kick you again, just grab her shoe and give it a wiggle...tell her it's a balancing exercise since she offered you her foot. :P
In all seriousness, sometimes the best thing to do is to ignore it. Your teacher has eyes and ears, so she should be able to determine what's going on and provide appropiate actions as a result. Sometimes, the best "revenge" is to just do super well in class or on stage...and then seeing the person's jaw drop as a result. :)
If you're feeling brave, you can try the "kill them with niceness" approach. If you see her doing a move really well, like her outfit, etc. compliment her on it. If she gives you the "why in heck are you telling me this?"approach, or evil glare, then simply tell her that you thought her (fill in the blank here) was really good and that it's considered appropiate to smile and tell the complimenter "thanks" and to offer a sincere compliment in return. If you're feeling SUPER brave, then maybe you can work with her on a move that she's struggling with. If she refuses, tell her that your "door is open" if she wants the help, because you would like to see her do well and show her grace that she is capable of both in and out of class. This way, you're standing up to her w/o getting down to her level, nor looking down upon her as a bad person.
2007-07-24 18:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by jfluterpicc_98 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with the person who posted before me, just laugh at her and don't go down to her level. She is pathetic and acts like a child and if you laugh and show it doesn't bother or hurt you she will feel so stupid. Also, the reason she is like that is because she is probably jealous of you...lol
2007-07-24 17:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by allicsirp19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should say nothing mean to her back or that would make you mean too . you should not let her get to you or she'll kow your the weakest you need to be the toughest. so ignore her and she'll say oh im not getting to her anymore shes just ignoring me . so ignore her and be the toughest. you go girl. also those girls who say laugh at her don't because if you do you are becoming a bully too and that would make you the weakest .ask her why she is bothering yo to that would also help
2007-07-25 06:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by miley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that same problem...just the girl doesn't kick or hurt me. so i'm really sorry that she did that! lol
well anyway, what i do is i just ignore her, and just socialize with the other people in my class, but i'm not sure of that'll help you!
i really hope it does!!!
and if it doesn't...just tell on her and ask the teacher or who ever you tell not to tell the girl that you told on her!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-07-25 16:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid her. Clearly she's jealous of you since she was punished at birth for being so damn ugly.
2007-07-24 17:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by soniye88 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first person. Only when you laugh, laugh and say "You are soooo immature". Then laugh harder. She will feel humiliated and feel really stupid. ♥♥♥
2007-07-25 04:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would just try to talk to her and if that doesnt work then u have 2 choices.......... snitch or hurt her really bad but either way its all bad for her hahahaha
2007-07-24 18:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by NayNay 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋