My ex was kind of a boyfriend lol we were friends and he took me out for a v-day date. We saw each other a few times but it didnt pan out. He was more upset then i was (he thought i "cheated" on him- we hadnt talked in a month and we werent bf/gf) anyways we are back to being friends and my hubby is ok with it but thursday i go play poker with my old buddys and my hubby has started going with me.. this week the "ex" is going too. Any advice on how to introduce and not make it that uncomfortable?
2007-07-24 16:41:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband knows all about the"ex" and he is cool with it he knows he is gonna be there and he is also friends with my -poker buddies- so i just want to introduce him the right way.. i dont lie to my husband and i asked him if he still wanted us to go and he said yes thats all there is to it i am not being disloyal, immature or lying to anyone. i just want to know what a good introduction would be... thanks
2007-07-24 18:30:59 · update #1
This is a game, And there is a saying "Play with fire and you will get burned. Are you sure you will be as happy when your husbands ex join you guy's? Don't give no more than you will be able to take, Remember "What's good for the goose is good for the gander" Now to the advice you asked for. Read my previous statements and answer your own question.
2007-07-24 16:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly because amny women tend to make a mountain out of a mole hill. If we just tell a little white lie from time to time, then we avoid a blowout over what we perceive as being insignificant.
Trying being calm and more understanding about minor issues and the little stupid white lies will usually stop.
2007-07-24 23:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine that no matter how you do it, somebody is going to be uncomfortable. Sorry, but be prepared. But on the other hand, should you decide not to go and the hubby finds out that the ex was there, he will think something was up with the ex. My but you live a dangerous life!
2007-07-24 23:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you sleep with him? Were you dating exclusively? If the answers are no, he isn't an ex anything and there should be no akwardness.
Someone should tell the "ex" that going on a date does not make you an exclusive couple and to grow the heck up.
2007-07-24 23:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could a person be more f'n disloyal to a spouse than this.
Your not mature enough to be married.
2007-07-24 23:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When they meet, just say Hank this is Fred, Fred this is Hank. Don't go into any explanations about who the other one is unless directly asked.
2007-07-24 23:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything
mine had meet 2 of my ex
my ex-fiance and my very first guy
2007-07-25 11:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your husband he was your .ex. boyfriend not that hard to say to him after all that was your past before you married him. my opion?
2007-07-24 23:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just skip the game this week.
2007-07-24 23:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋