She calls and wants to talk about him all the time. Her mother calls me to. Telling me to tell him to go back with her. I really don't want to hear about it and don't really like her much either. For my own reasons.
2007-07-24 16:05:24 · 5 answers · asked by CH25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your so right about the manpulation thing. DAMN! Also he is her ex now and they have a 1year old child.
2007-07-24 16:15:50 · update #1
Quit being her doormat! She has turned to you because you have "insider" information on your brother, and she doesn't care WHO she steps on to get her way.
Politely tell her that you don't want to talk about him - and become more forceful (and rude if you so choose) if she doesn't take a hint. Same with the mother...
And if THAT doesn't work - just get her number blocked ;);)
2007-07-24 16:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "sorry, I'm real busy right now" every time she calls - she will get the message - you don't care if she gets pizzed at you, right...you don't like her...so be as rude as you can get away with.
Tell her mother the same thing - you don't need to listen to a bunch of bull-doody about your brother.
2007-07-24 23:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that they need to talk to him, not you. It's his relationship, not yours. And tell your brother that you want the phone calls to you stopped.
2007-07-24 23:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just to be up front with them and tell them how you feel.
2007-07-24 23:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you don't care. be blunt. she thinks she can have an "in" with him if she makes friends with you and becomes intimate bout their relationship. that's a bunch of manipulative crapp. you don't want or need to hear about it and tell her so.........
ps tell your bro..........he might need to know this..........
2007-07-24 23:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by frecklegirl145 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋