2007-07-24 15:57:26 · 39 answers · asked by Boyish jennifer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. That would be careless and would likely result in divorce. I don't know why people rush into marriage. A long engagement is the best course, because you get to know the type of person you're going to be with a hell of a lot better than couples that are already married.
2007-07-24 16:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT! Trust me, you need to really know who they are, and even a year isn't enough time to really know someone.
I'd hate to see your next question be: "Should I divorce someone that I haven't been married to very long?"
If the two of you are in love, you can wait however long it takes to make sure it will be a good marriage.
2007-07-24 16:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by savannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sarah in my opinion couples need to get to know each other very well before taking the plunge at marriage. There may be big surprises that neither of you are aware of about each other that you don't like. Take your time and allow the relationship to develope over time and progress naturally, rather then try and force something that is not there yet.
2007-07-24 16:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It takes time to get to know someone and a wise person would take the time to find out about their past. Everyone has one and some are worse than others but someones past is a very telling tale.
Take your time. If they are trying to rush you it should be a red flag that they are trying to rush you into something for a reason.
2007-07-24 16:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Colleen G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without any more information than that, I will give the standard answer of....
That would be a poor choice.
However, I did marry very quickly. We dated just under 4 months before we married. It's been 7 years now and we are very happy. This is standard behavior in my family and in his family. In general, in our families, if you have to sit around and wonder if that person is the "ONE" then they aren't.
2007-07-24 16:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that this is the person for you then why not? My roommate married her husband after they had known each other for only about two months. They have been together now for almost two years.
2007-07-24 16:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by Steven's Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to know what is best for you and judge how well you know this person and how much you trust the person and the relationship. You didn't specify how long is not very long. It CAN work out but it just depends on the people and the commitment to the relationship. I
2007-07-24 16:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by Happy Mommie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? are you pregos? Why not get to know him,before you get yourself in a mess.What if you can't stand him after you are married? He could be a total slob and impossible to live with.Do you know the family.What if mommy moves in with you after you say I do? Better give yourself some time,and find out a few things first.Mean while safe sex only.
2007-07-24 16:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you've known him... if u have a gutsy feeling about getting married to him then thats not a good sign!
2007-07-24 16:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience no, I married my ex after knowing him for just 9 months, only to discover that I did not know him at all, people can pretend to be something they aren't for a certain amount of time, but if you get to know him for a longer period of time you see their true colours.
2007-07-25 04:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋