2007-07-24 14:40:33 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That he would become mentally/verbally/emotionall/physically abusive and hell no I wouldn't have married him if I knew.
2007-07-24 15:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About the only thing I would change in my marriage if I had it to do over is take a stand with my in-laws from the very beginning and not let them try to run my husbands and my life. Now that I am starting to say no and not give in to my in-laws demands life has gotten a little rough. There is the silence treatment, making sure that we know when a special favor or gift has been given to the other kids, and that the grand kids are feeling the brunt of my not giving in, by not as many visits from the grandparents.
2007-07-24 22:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That I was expected to do everything for her... and then get crapped on by her having an affair after I spent 4 years working double double time to build her a house.
woman think their income is for them and the mans income is for bills.
Women want equal rights but not equal responsibilities.
Women want you to fix the car, take out the trash, make the money AND do all of her work like clean and cook and laundry....
If I had hired a maid I could have at least had some time off and had a good looking woman around...
2007-07-24 22:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mindlessfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I would have known about her insecurities. Man oh man did she have issues. The bad part was that I had figured it out and had the chance to back away but didn't. I'll never make that mistake again because it cost me twenty years and I barely got out with my life. The moral of this story is some people don't deserve the benefit of the doubt.
2007-07-24 21:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by rollmanjmg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing I needed to know that I didn't find out before we married and I wouldn't have married until I asked all the questions. It's as simple as that. I surely didn't rely on my heart alone. Anyone who does is living a fairy tale.
2007-07-24 21:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by dawnb 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I had known she was going to be unfaithful. She crapped on 24 years of marriage. I was never perfect but the one thing I never did was cheat.In the end I wish I would have known before.
2007-07-24 21:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by jerry b 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wish I would Had know how many married women look for sex outside marriage. Then I could have just had sex without commitment.
2007-07-24 22:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I won't say what the one thing is but I would not have married or dated my wife of eighteen yrs. I would not have my children, memories or this award winning broken heart! That would have been the biggest mistake of my life...
2007-07-24 21:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by AzNative89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) That she would never make a hard decision fo rour relationship. Always the easiest/most pleasureable for herself.
2) No.
2007-07-25 00:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by ilikeemwild2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That the problems that your spouse's family dump on your spouse become your problems too. But I would marry my wife again in a heartbeat.
2007-07-24 21:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by amateurmechanic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋