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2007-07-24 14:33:12 · 18 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
theres no use in dating someone that youre not going to marry. sometimes i dont even get the point of dating. while your dating each person try to show only their good side, but then when they get married they see EVERYTHING. its very frusterating.
2007-07-24 14:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by litwit 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you already know you would never marry someone, yes then, why would you date them, but how would you really know you would never marry them unless you date them. How will you find the person you would marry if you do not date a few people to look for them? You do not have to become intimate with everyone you have a casual date
2007-07-24 21:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because dating doesn't mean a relationship. Dating is simply sharing time with someone you have something in common with and who's company you enjoy. It is a "prelude" to the possibility of a relationship. I can't see why any woman with a brain in her head would want to become intimate with you before they actually got to know you and the only way to do that is by dating.
2007-07-24 22:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To find the one you want to marry it requires some dating or you may never find them. Becoming intimate happens, it's not the end of the world as long as you are mature about it.
2007-07-24 21:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by ~Les~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all a learning process. each person you date teaches you something about what you like and dislike in a person that you would consider to be a potential spouse. dating people you think you won't marry can teach you which things are important to you, and solidify your own preferences for what you're looking for in a partner. it will also teach you that there is more to a person than preliminary introductions, so you have to give people a chance to see if they mesh well with your concept of a serious relationship. if you know 100% the person is "out", simply identify why so you'll know for the future and move on. no sense in giving someone false hope.
2007-07-24 21:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by The Beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to have variety and to see who the capeable candidates are of your future marrage. for example, past boyfriends of mine whove ive become intimate with, became assholes right after. i knew right then and there he wasnt worth my time and moved on. you gotta date pple. you cant just pick one person and say "ima marry you!" cuz you dont know what their gonna be like when the relationship becomes more personal and close. hope ive answered your question. & good luck in the long run =]
2007-07-24 21:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by kay lay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows after dating, you might intend to marry already. I mean dating is a period of discovery. Just be sure no one is hurt when a relationship does not work out after dating.
2007-07-24 21:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by sggam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't. Dating is the interview stage to possible marriage. Doesn't mean you'll get the job, but if the right answers aren't there, there is no need to waste valuable time staying in the situation.
2007-07-24 21:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by dawnb 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You date to learn and experience things. Also, when you first meet anyone you usually don't intend to marry them, then you start to date more and more then maybe you might feel differently.
2007-07-24 21:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by Fungirl22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if at any point you are positive that you will not marry someone, you should stop dating them
2007-07-24 21:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋