I wish I get along w/ Cancers. But they complicate things. All the Cancers I know (pardon me) seems to take offense easily. I find it easy to discuss things and do things with signs...like Leo or Libra...or..Saggitarius. I wish I could just tell Cancer to lighten up. ..that not everything is about them. Cancer has a way of being egocentric that makes me feel very uncomfortable. It is so obvious to me that Cancer is insecure...and it is so annoying to have them trying to project confidence in ways that is really more like ...offensive....(offensive and defensive is a great way to describe the ones I have to work with) I must not be a typical Scorpio female. I look up to Leo . Leo finds that I think too much . ( This is true and Leo helps me get out of myself & DO ) Libra and I can really discuss. Life always make more sense when I am with Libra. I get excited with Sagg..we inspire each other. Capricorn is home...deep connection. Why do I have such a struggle w/ cancer?
2007-07-24 13:05:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
You are describing many Cancer Sun natives...the insecurity, the sensitivity, etc. If these characteristics don't gel with your personality and temperament; why fight it? Move on...life is too short.
2007-07-24 16:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by Gipper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scorpio With Cancer:
Cancers natural concern for other people may somehow lead Scorpio to think that they are using Cancers good nature and disposition, secretly these thoughts will come from a touch of jealousy of Cancers interest in someone besides him/her. Cancer has great respect for Scorpio, and even though Cancer is of a slightly critical nature Cancer will learn to phrase these criticisms without wounding Scorpio's pride. These two can get along on a very high level. Soul mates are common in this match up. A very good relationship but needs constant maintenance. Both are ruled by the emotions and both are water signs. Can be very constructive or very destructive depending on the next wave. If these two water signs could only learn to float instead of surge.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-07-24 21:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may have a few planets in non-Water Sign territory. Normally Scorpios and Cancers are supposed to be a good match. Though I hear you on Cancers. I'm a Libra who dated a Cancer and he was the same exact way. Took everything so personally, always had to prove himself, and was emotionally draining. You may have some signs in Sagittarius or Libra since they are both close to you in the zodiac. That would explain some attraction. But hey, if Cancer's aren't your thing, that's okay. And don't judge all Cancers based on one specimen. Though I should probably take my own advice. But my ex totally scarred me for life on Cancers. And my Cancer boss is scary as hell, too!!!!
2007-07-24 22:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a cancer girl, I am so what you described. I think it is good to know we come off that way. For me I am very insecure and take everything very very very personal and then dwell and stress over it and think by saying something it is reassurance that it wasn't meant for me in particularly , there for I annoy, My husband has told me this so many times. I am just glad I am not the only one, I hate feeling this way but I hate thinking everyone is always coming down on me in all on my own. I hate feeling this way. not easy to change, when the confidence comes around, it really comes around.
2007-07-24 20:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by junebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don'tget along with cancers that much either. Like, they're hard to get along with, but they aren't mean or anything. Cancers are really supportive though, if you notice the small things they do so you know that they care. That's why I love my bf so much, (he's a Cancer) he doesn't do the whole pda thing like most other signs, but he's still the most amazing bf I've ever had!
2007-07-25 13:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps your mars or venus is in leo/ libra/ saggs/ capricorn that'll explain your inclination towards such signs.
check your natal chart here.
www.cafeastrology.com
for me, it explained a lot why i dont act like a typical cancer and also why im naturally attracted to geminis and libra.
g'luck!
2007-07-24 22:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by humming scallion 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what you're talking about. i dated a cancer for a short time. they were so all about them and it made me sick. they are quick to belittle everything they dont understand. my problem with that jacka.ss was that they would judge me and assume that they knew everything about me - and the stuff they said was always wrong.
and when they get mad - usually about stuff they dont understand - then they want to get insulting. it's like the cancer doesnt want to do anything when it comes to their mate, yet they want to get pampered and pleased. needless to say, i was out. not all cancers are like this. i am very close to one cancer - we never have any disagreements nor arguements. so it depends on the person.
2007-07-24 23:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by SportyT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a scorpio guy, cancers drive me crazy, they have all the potential of a watter sign, but their so gloomy all the time. I get along with leos just fine.
2007-07-24 20:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just do. it doesnt sound like you have a question at all . im not offended by your question and im a cancer. i typically dont get along that well with scorpios. all they do is lure me into trouble. its fun but trouble non the less.
2007-07-24 20:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by lil ol me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋