I really want an orgasm. I get so close to getting off, but I never do. Any tips?
P.S. It's a solo orgasm.
2007-07-24 12:27:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I'm only fourteen. But i'm not lesbian.
2007-07-24 12:30:18 · update #1
well the best thing to do is just do ur thing all the way up till ur at that point then go as far as u can (er w/e u do) to get the most pleasure at the exact point u are about to orgasm
or maybe right before u do put something in the back door IVE JUST HEARD IT HELPS
2007-07-24 12:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Devan the G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting your mind in the mood helps a lot. Read some erotica or make some some fantasies or whatnot.
It also helps to know what areas stimulate you best. For most women it's the clitoris, so I'd get a mirror and figure out where that is and try rubbing that a bit. Some women tend to be more sensitive than others, however, so I would start slow and work up to what you might like.
The other area is the G-spot, which is located a few inches in your vagina and just above the pubic bone. It feels different from the rest of the vaginal walls, and is somewhat spongy feeling. You do need to be aroused for it to feel good, but finding that spot is always a bonus for me. Using your fingers in a "come hither" motion or a curved toy is best for finding it.
2007-07-24 20:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by Bekanator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes an average of about 20 minutes for a woman to orgasm so just keep doing it longer.
2007-07-24 19:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not a woman, but you should keep stimulating your private areas, Anal, or Vagina, or try stimulating them at the same time with vibrators, dildos, or just use your fingers, and just keep doing it until the point that you feel a euphoric or complete ecstacy feeling, and your body will have lots of muscle contractions, and other things, like intense happiness in the mind.
Hope that helps.
2007-07-24 19:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time don't rush and have a peaceful moment. use lubricants , if need be s.. toys be comfortable snuggle and warm use fragrance in air. set the atmosphere. try varies skin massage nipple caress and glaze your clit.. in different strokes. just let go all feelings during the lead up, what happens happen. try not be to harsh on self if orgasm not reach... some take time / maturity to come with ease.... its all about your feelings........ sensitive guy !
2007-07-24 19:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by daryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably anticipating it too much and throwing yourself off.
If you've gotten close, you know what you like and how to do it, you just have to get past the mental hurdle and just go with it and relax.
Try not to worry about reaching orgasm, just try to enjoy it and you will get there easier.
2007-07-24 20:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by squirrely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i've heard of girls using shower heads, vibrators, clitoral stimulation with their hand.... or vaginal and clitoral at the same time.
2007-07-24 19:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by nate q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stimulate your clitoris with finger. It takes quite sometime.
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2007-07-24 22:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋