A guy told me that if you pull your penis out 15-30 sec before he cums then that will prevent a women from getting pregnant.
Personal I don't believe thats true but I would like to see what other people think.
2007-07-24 11:39:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No this is not true at all. Your smart for not believing him. You can get pregnant from precome and usually the guy cant even tell when the precome comes out but it can get you pregnant.
2007-07-24 11:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by ஐ♥Sabine♥ஐ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, as other pointed out too - there is some discussion that sperm leaks out with the pre-*** (male lubricant). Theoretically, it's unlikely and yes, pulling out works IF DONE RIGHT. The published results are that it is 80% effective, meaning with couples that practice this regularly, mistakes, drunk or not etc. and all - only 20% get pregnant over the course of a year. (Russian roulette is safer - 16% !) BTW, the risk is definitely there if he's going for round two!
Secondly, how do you know he will pull out in time? Maybe he's just spinning you a line. Maybe he wants it, and doesn't care what happens to you. Maybe he wants a kid, especially if he doesn't have to do the work of raising it. (Some guys do. Englebert Humperdink has about 100... some smooth talker!) Guys will say anything...
Third- even if he means to pull out in time, maybe he won't in the heat of the moment. It's a tough decision; extreme pleasure now, versus no child payments - maybe - in a year or more. Maybe he'll go oops and then lie and say he made it in time, then quietly move to a different city.
Fourth - condoms are pretty cheap and a lot more effective - 98%.(Including rips and too drunk to put it on right) if you're embarrassed, go to a different town, do your hair different, and buy a year's supply at several pharmacies.
Fifth - even if he gets out in time, if it gets into you the risk is there. If he dribbles; or either of you touch sperm and then touch your vagina; if it drips on the bed and then you roll into it sitting up; etc. If things are warm and moist (think hot and sweaty) sperm don't die. they die when the cool off and dry out. Fertile female and loose sperm is a risky combination.
It sounds like he's trying to get into your pants, but is too embarrassed or shy or lazy to buy condoms, or jsut wants the thrill of bareback riding. Make him work for it. Best of all, if you're thinking about it, get on the pill. A month of pills is cheaper than a week of disposable diapers.
And remember, if he's been around, pregnancy is just one of the worries.
2007-07-24 19:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually yes you can. Believe Me, I am living proof. My husband and I did the whole pull-out method, and here I am with a bouncing baby boy. sometimes the *** comes out before he can pull out in time, AND there is the risk of getting pregnant from pre-***.
So the man is wrong. He might as well wear protecting, then run the risk.
2007-07-24 18:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by Siren Rene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not true and I am living proof right now. I am 30 wks pregnant and my husband and I don't believe in protection because 1 we're married, 2 I am scared for religious reasons. Anyway, instead of leaving it in, he pulls out every time because we also thought this might stop me from getting pregnant, well I am pregnant and not only did I get pregnant from him pulling out but I was also sleep at the time (it's funny but don't ask). To make a long story short, its doesn't work!!
2007-07-24 19:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true. Some can easily and almost always does come out ahead of time before the big burst.
2007-07-24 18:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Scocasso ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not true..theres precum...and that can get a girl pregant just as easy as *** can.. the "pull out method" is what got me my daughter!
2007-07-24 18:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by Stacey22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pulling out won't help. Guys have pre-*** during sex.
Unprotected sex can also lead to disease.
2007-07-24 19:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this worked well, do you think they would have needed birth control? Obviously, this guy goes to school where they teach abstinence only sex ed or he would know better. The worst part is that he will breed.
2007-07-24 18:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pre-*** contains sperm so even if he pulls out there is the possibility of getting pregnant.
2007-07-24 18:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by hunneybee1979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know 2 people who have gotten pregnant using this "method" of birth control.
2007-07-24 18:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by s0_blessed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋