look i'm still young and since i've never gotten an actual bf now they think that i will never get a bf. she is saying that i'm jealous of her cuz supposebly she's gotten a bf and i haven't. how can i tell her that i'm not ready for a bf and i don't want one right now. i 'm not jealous of her @ all but she can get annoying sometimes and lately we have gotten in fights. my friend also says that i will never get a bf cuz i've never gotten one. how could i tell her that she is annoying.
2007-07-24 10:21:48 · 10 answers · asked by summergrl 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
my friend lately has been complaing and benn getting pissed. she says that i changed ever since i came back from a trip i just took. she says that her other friends arent annoying like me , so i told her to hang out with them and i'll be happy for her. i dont know what to do. should i hang out with a new friend. should i keep being her friend
2007-07-24 10:37:21 · update #1
this can be a confusing situation for girls but here is the perfect advice...#1. if she is being mean to u by saying u wont get a bf, then she really isnt a good friend. #2. there r many ways that girls get other girls mad and ur question is one of them. #3. most girls like to start fights because they think if they win, they r the best. girls who say those stuff r just low-life wanna-be's who have nothing better to do than piss people off. just ignore wut she says because if u show her that she is annoying u, she will keep doing it and she will think she won the battle. it may not seem to be a battle but it is, trust me. wutever u do, dont let her know ur annoyed by her, just ignore her and act like she is talking to someone else about that. trust me, i had the same problem exept is was about ME being mean when i didnt even know who they were...thats besides the point, lol. that was a good question to ask, and i hope my answer helps! if u have any other questions, go to my advice website called "freewebs.com/askmoonie" and i will be happy to help.spread the word. thanx!
2007-07-24 10:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when friends are moving from childhood to teens to adulthood they move at different rates. So it happens that best friends may find that one is very interested in boys but the other is not yet. It could be that you and your friend will not share interests for awhile. Maybe you will be on the same track later, but for now you might want to consider spending time with other friends who share your current interests. Try explaining to your friend that you are not yet interested in boys and that everyone grows at their own rate. You can offer her the choice of spending time with you doing and talking about things you are both interested in now, or spending time with others.
You will be able to find a boyfriend (or a man) when you get ready. There's no rush. Spend your time doing what you like.
2007-07-24 17:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a true friend maybe shes not Happy and jealous of you for being single? Its better to wait than to rush into things your the more mature person in this situation
2007-07-24 17:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Wondering Mind 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend sounds like a jerk. She's probably just insecure about herself. Congrats for your attitude. You sound like the smart one. Maybe you should find some new people to hang out with.
2007-07-24 17:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kat H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend sounds like a jerk, you dont deserve a friend like that, just tell her how you feel and that your just not ready for a bf right now. Good Luck!
2007-07-24 17:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u call those ppl ur friends???? is there somtin mentally wrong wit u? tell them to bak the f*ck off and show them u can get a guy
2007-07-24 18:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jamiy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you'll take hers from her if she messes with you LOL.
Or say" I don't want a b/f...I like girls...say your kind of cute come here..."
Don't let it get to you,just tell her you are picky and you wont settle for just ANY boy like SOME people you know.
2007-07-24 17:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds to me like you handled the situation very well...keep it up!!
2007-07-25 18:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with Kat H
2007-07-24 17:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That isn't very nice of your friend.. Maybe you should forget her.. that isn't nice at all.
2007-07-24 18:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋