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OK I'm 100% lesbian and i watch lesbian porn and i love it but sometimes i watch gay guy porn but it doesn't turn me on and i still don't understand why i watch it. I mean i have been with a guy before but i don't like guys i like girls so what is wrong with me?

DON'T SAY I'M STRAIGHT OR BI BECAUSE I'M NOT!

2007-07-24 08:41:06 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

OK I'm 100% lesbian and i watch lesbian porn and i love it but sometimes i watch gay guy porn but it doesn't turn me on and i still don't understand why i watch it. I mean i have been with a guy before but i don't like guys i like girls so what is wrong with me?

DON'T SAY I'M STRAIGHT OR BI BECAUSE I'M NOT!

Please don't leave a comment if you are saying i'm bi or straight because i don't want to put up with people like that.

2007-07-24 09:02:03 · update #1

39 answers

Hi there is nothing wrong with watching gay guy porn if you a lesbian, sounds like your just curious as to what we get up to

2007-07-24 08:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by pete m 5 · 3 1

Believe me, you aren't alone. From what I hear, a substantial amount of lesbian women enjoy watching gay male porn, or straight porn, too- the kind that "shouldn't" get them off because it features men.

Why might that be? Here's my understanding of it:

You don't necessarily have to be attracted to the people on-screen in order to get involved and turned on by the action. Now, if you're watching it and thinking "Man, I'd love for him to pound me.", then I'd wonder about your orientation. But when your thoughts are along the lines of "Ooh, yeah, pound away at him, ooh, suck it." and so on, it's not your attraction to the men, but your ability to get aroused by the blatant sexuality on-screen. I've heard the theory put out there that it's easier for lesbians to enjoy gay male porn because it has a queer element that resonates for them (versus, say, andro-centric heterosexual porn) and because male sexuality is so visible- there's no doubt as to when men are turned on. It makes it that much more visible and arousing.

The more I talk and hear from people about the porn they watch, the more I start to see that it has very little to do with their orientation . . . I know straight girls who like watching lesbian porn and lesbians who like gay male porn and even a few gay men who prefer watching straight porn.

In the end, only you can really know why it turns you on, but don't worry about it "meaning" anything about your orientation. Trust me- people's porn preferences are all over the board.

Hope that helps!

2007-07-25 19:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I'm sometimes curious as to how lesbians do things and take an interest in lesbian stuff that deals with sexuality, generally not porn, but same difference, and I'm a gay man.

Also I notice that alot of the authors of the On Our Backs Guide to Lesbian Sex either watched gay porn or even fantasized about role-playing as gay men (with other women) so its probably not that unusual.

(I'm not saying that last bit is something you would want to do I just brought it up for comparison)

2007-07-24 09:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by geramd4040 3 · 3 0

Maybe you watch it out of pure curiosity? There isn't anything wrong with that. I look at a lot of stuff that isnt my cup O tea but I watch it anyway. Take drama for instance, murder stories. I watch them. I don't want to murder anyone nor do I want to be murdered but still I will watch it. I suspect that this is why you are drawn to see men having sex with each other, even if it isnt your personal turn on. I do this with watching lesbian sex porn. My wife doesn't like it. If there isn't a man in there somewhere she isnt into it but I'll watch anything, and the more different it is from what I like the more interesting it is to me. I think curiosity is very human and a good thing.

2007-07-24 08:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Ok. Im sorta in between just attracted to both but anyway on with my answer. I love watching gay guy porn. It does turn me on. There is nothing wrong with that. It doesn't mean you are anything other than what you are. Wait maybe you want to be a gay guy. Lol. Im just playing but seriously, its not big deal. You just like watching guys have sex. Its all good lol.

2007-08-01 04:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by ajdb090706 2 · 0 0

Thats funny Im straight and watch lesbian porn and I love the stuff.

2007-07-24 08:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Nothing is wrong with you. My friend, lesbian also, loves gay porn. She even has been to a Chippendale's show before. She appreciates mens bodies, but she just doesn't get turned on by them.

2007-07-24 08:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by Liir 3 · 1 0

Maybe you are just curious, and that's all. What is wrong with that? Things that are not familiar to us, or are forbidden in our minds, naturally provoke curiosity. Ask yourself what you get out of it when you watch it. How do you feel when the movie is over? Is it just a phase to educate yourself on how gay guys make love, or are you concerned you are watching it too often? If you have a gay guy friend you could bounce your feelings off of, go talk to him, too. Just remember that we all have things society considers odd that we do, and do not be hard on yourself for it.

2007-07-24 08:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I'm straight and I watch gay porn more than any other type. Even lesbian porn is geared towards men which really takes the females enjoyment out of it.

There's nothing wrong with you.

2007-07-24 08:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 8 0

I'm a straight female and I think gay guy porn is a turn on.

2007-07-24 08:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 2 0

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