who's fault do you think it is? the men/women that don't try to turn up their marriage into a better relation or the men/women that can't respect the marriage and get involved with them anyway?
2007-07-24 08:12:58 · 6 answers · asked by Randy Bee 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
The married person is at fault because he/she should try to make their relationship stronger,not weaker. I think people who get involved with married people are sluts.
2007-07-24 08:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
*thinks* well every girl should have a husband and a boyfriend..... in case the other one gets boring after a while.... and to ensure you'll always have a date on friday night! haha but the guys can only have one... either a wife or a GF... its only fair.
*grins* ... i'm joking all in good fun, of course....... in the case of an affair its a matter of self-restraint. Just because you're married doesnt mean you'll never find anyone else attractive ... but to break your vows of marriage just because you can't work things out is stupid. If you're that unhappy - get a divorce, but don't cheat. In the case of a bad marriage...It's kind of both their faults for not trying to come to a compromise.... but in the case that someone has an affair, the blame lies on the person who cheated.... as they're grown and have their own mind and know the difference between right and wrong..... um, and they know that they're married too! ....
ALSO: *sighs* good lord, if you don't think you can be faithful to one person... then don't get married! it's that simple.
oh and the skanks that sleep with married men, or women.... well yeah.... they're just skanks. I joke around sometimes, but i would never do such a disrespectful and crass thing......
2007-07-24 15:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't blame the marriage that don't want to better their relationship. I am married and my husband and I have problems.. I asked him we need counseling but he refuse to go. So we sat down and talk about our problems but he is the type that it goes through one ear and out the other. He tries to make it work but than he goes back to himself. I am not saying I am picture perfect it's that I am the one trying to make this marriage work but their is so much I can do and take.
I think it's both the cheater and the cheated are to blame. One he/she that gets involved with a married person....it's more they want what they can't have....so it's a challenge for them. ANd for the marriage couple...they do it because of attention...they feel that their wife/husband does not pay attention to them and feels that someone else will take their time to listen to their problems.
2007-07-24 16:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by racinimod 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say that they both have to work their marriage with a genuine heart otherwise still a s l u t can still over rule and be the "other". I hate s l u t s that do that cause they're not only hurting the party that loves but also the kids that they might have and that memory never goes away and hatred is always present.
2007-07-24 15:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't get me started on this one!! It happened to me. My ex and my ex-friend hooked up when her marriage was going down the tubes. Maybe my marriage wasn't as strong as it should be but neither of them respected the marriage vows, or the friendship we had. Stab me in the back and took my husband!! I'm over it now but it took 4 years. From what I hear from my son, it's not all roses over at the house. I'm a firm believer--what goes around, comes around!!
2007-07-24 15:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Squirt 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Both..... 50/50
2007-07-24 15:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋