We have had sex only once a month in the beginning of our marriage and now we haven't had sex for the last 10 months. 6 years into marriage now.
2007-07-24 07:39:21 · 22 answers · asked by catchmeifucan_now 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As much as i want but not with the hubby....
2007-07-24 07:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Rabbit Man and I have been together for 13 years and married 12.
We on average have sex between 10 and 50 times a month.
However, I am now 30 weeks pregnant and we are slowing down due to how large I am getting and I have herniated discs in my back, so finding a position that works is difficult!
But we love to be intimate, even if we just snuggle!
I wish there was something that I could say to help you and yours. Just hold out and maybe things will change? The woman I know does not get her sexual peak until her 30's, and the male peaks in his teens to 20's.
Maybe you both need to compromise.
I know that I would not be satisfied with just once in a blue moon.
Blessings to you
2007-07-24 14:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 14 years and honestly, we had sex 5 times a week usually for our entire marriage. I know that is not the norm, we were just sexually compatible. I think it is really important, but a lot of people have deep seated issues that revolve around sex. Perhaps counseling is an option?
2007-07-24 14:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Topless 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do Somthing Nice for Her! Get Her in the Mood. If You Havnt had Sex in that Long... and Youre only 6 Years into Marriage... I'd Say the Flame needs re-kindled.
2007-07-24 14:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have it about 30 times to few for me !!!! :) Just kidding.
Right now the frequency is at about 3 times per month. I would like to see that double if at all possible.
It goes up and down over time like the tide. Some times we get in the mood twice a week for months on end. Then others, we get out of sinc and maybe have sex 4 times in 6 months. Its just like that.
2007-07-24 14:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by aa889d 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At least 2-3 times a week. We have been married a year.
2007-07-24 14:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by wildcat137 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW...sounds like theres a problem there. My b/f and myself have had sex at least once a day if not more. And I have been prego for 10 wks and not really in the mood but I still make sure his needs are met. Maybe you should talk to her about why you don't have intimacy and sex more often.
2007-07-24 14:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have been married 8 years now and when we first got married it was like 3 or 4 times a day then we had kids and now we have it at least 1 time a day :)
2007-07-24 14:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a good sign. In my 8th year of marriage - just before we separated - we were having sex at least twice a week.
2007-07-24 14:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by J F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
9 yrs of marriage 12 yrs together and we have sex everyday and its just as good as the first. i would go crazy lol. oops minus having 3 sons in that time and mother nature paying a visit:-)
2007-07-24 14:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by daffysmiles2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god! I thought 4 times a month was bad. not at all for 10 months? thats not a marriage. that isn't right. you have to be getting your rocks off somewhere.
2007-07-24 14:43:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋