ok my mom got a phone call sayin the my girl n i nearly had sex at a friends house she doesnt trust me as it is its a bunch of **** i dont know what to do the most she did was give me a hikey now i cant go to my frriends house and when she comes to my place we have to stay in the living room
2007-07-24 04:59:02 · 4 answers · asked by duck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like your mom is smart. If you ended up with a hickey, that's proof right there you aren't thinking and can't control yourself. You're already giving each other bruises (hickey) because you don't know when to stop.
2007-07-24 05:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is being cautious. Sex can be a big deal and she may feel that you're too young. Unfortunately, if you two decide you really want to have sex then I'm sure you'll find a way regardless of her watchful eye.
Maybe the best way to approach the situation is to sit down and have a conversation with her about sex. I know that may seem uncomfortable with your mom but if you can show her that you're thinking it through and at least have some smarts about it, she will be more trusting. Make sure you tell her that you aren't planning on it but reassure that you know enough to be smart about it.
Good luck.
2007-07-24 12:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Roses ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To gain your mom's trust again, you have to show her that you can be trusted. If you have your girlfriend over, just go straight to the living room. Don't even attempt to go to your room. Invite your mom to an outing with you and your girlfriend. That way she'll get to know your girlfriend on a personal level. Apologize to your mom for how you behaved and that you're sorry she had to hear that. Have your girlfriend apologize too. She wants you to acknowledge that you were wrong.
When you're around your mom, you can show affection to your girlfriend but nothing too much. A peck on the lips on cheek will suffice.
2007-07-24 12:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by JustAsking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? Have sex with her and then tell you mum you did. Then she will have the rest of her life to get over it.
2007-07-24 12:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋