i left my ex bf because he didn't want to grow up, and he didn't want to go to college... ** well he said he did** when i first met him he had nothing, and i turned it all around for him, but we are just too different to make the it work, well see i did love him so after i left him i turned every other guy down n gained some weight! now he is dating a 15 year old.. and she is going to be a shopmore next year!! ( she might be 16) hes 20 years old, and he wrecked his car 3 times, so he doesn't have one.. and he is building a mini truck now.. but see that girl is kind of pretty so it makes me feel like i lost a good guy! do u think i did? should i just lose my extra 10 pounds and go into college with a new attitude??? will i be surprise how the guys are different ... i'm leaving in a few days... thanks!
2007-07-24 04:43:32 · 7 answers · asked by southernprideinmyveins420 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is a 20 year old dating a highschool girl - HELLO - that is Not a sign of success. He is a loser and he will always be a loser. She will be knocked up before she is a junior and he will walk out on her. At least you don't have to deal with that.
Go to college and forget him. You already wasted too much time on him.
2007-07-24 04:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Collette L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl you obviously have your standards and if the guy can't keep up oh well move on. Go to college enjoy because it's a fantastic experience and you'll meet some great people. The weight thing is you call, if you dont feel your best and you put on this weight out depression for the break-up then get moving to become the person you were and have fun. This new girl she is not your concern that was past time to move on to bigger and better things
2007-07-24 05:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by smilesnfayth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's 20 and interested in a girl only 3/4 his age, this confirms your feelings that he's not grown up. Go to college. Study. Make new friends. Love and romance are important parts of life, but not the only part. Start to take care of school and other parts of your life. The love part will not take care of itself, but you will find guys with similar interests who will be interested in you and will deserve you.
2007-07-24 04:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by jack of all trades 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very understanding at what you're getting at with all of this but the simple way out is to lose those 10 extra pounds and go into college with a new attitude. just because one guy didn't seem to work out, though you loved him, there is bound to be someone 110% better. a guy that's mature and fits all of your qualifications.
2007-07-24 04:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont compare yourself to a 16 year old. just change, lose whatever weight u want to, and go to school, as a new person, witha new attitude. and move on, dont think about the past, just the future.
2007-07-24 04:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by cuban cutie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to college. It's a new start and a new life. It's part of growing up. Those that want to move on, should. If they don't they regret it.
2007-07-24 04:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him.
2007-07-24 05:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋