whenever on the computer i search for porn and save loads of it then jack off to it then delete it and i then vow to not go on it again but next day i find myself going on it all over again, its spoiling my life, how can i stop or cut down and make it only occasional , advise me please!!!! PLEASE! im only 15 i dont need it!
2007-07-24 04:16:36 · 13 answers · asked by Bruiser-Boy 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
all the followin answers r fine but i need to kno how to stop and fight the urge! i do turn off the computer and do other things but i eventually get in the mood to go on porn and jack off.
2007-07-24 04:23:40 · update #1
people dont tell me its ok to masturbate cause its affectin my life i need to cut down
2007-07-24 04:31:28 · update #2
Usually it's easier to replace a bad habit with a good habit instead of just trying to get rid of the bad habit, So find something you can do instead of watching porn, something that you will enjoy in a non-sexual way or that makes you feel good about yourself. Maybe go running or shoot baskets. Maybe during the time of day when you're used to watching porn, arrange to do some serious volunteer work. Set a goal of two extra A's on your next report card and study hard at the library instead of coming home and turning on the smut.
Don't let porn conrol you -- you need to get in charge of your own life and how you spend it. Porn is really unhealthy and teaches guys to regard females as objects instead of treating them as equal human beings, and it sets totally unreal expectations (such as how big a penis is supposed to be -- the ones on porn are mostly digitally enhanced). Breaking this bad habit is an important way to earn some real self-respect.
Only using the computer when there are other people in the room is a great idea. Or get a blocking program like NetNanny that will keep you from accessing the porn sites. (Get somebody else to install it for you and tell them NOT to tell you how to bypass it, even if you beg!)
If all else fails, pretend that each woman in the porn movies is your mother! Would you want her treated like that?
Keep at it even if you slip a few times. You are a valuable person, and you should spend your time doing things that make you proud of yourself, not watching some sicko sex stuff. Sex is beautiful at the right time with the right person. Don't let porn pollute it for you. Good luck!
2007-07-24 09:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its "affectin" your life then you need professional help and a strong mental attitude. Just like addictions to drugs, alcohol or nicotine you can't do it alone. However, unlike those addictions, masturbation addiction hurts no one, doesn't cost anything, and is easily obtained. Maybe you should learn to live with it, like the rest of us, and stop whining.
2007-07-24 10:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by Solo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Limit yourself. If it's an "addiction" like you say, then start limiting yourself. But make the time limit a little longer each time. Like 1 time you have to wait a day, then next you have to wait at least 2 days b4 looking it up again, then 3, then 4, and so on... It worked for me. Also if you feel like looking it up force yourself to keep yourself busy for just a bit longer. Like if I'm playing a video game I force myself to wait till not the next, but the save point afterwards. I usually get distracted from the urge or it just goes away. If you are more of a TV person wait till next show or something... And try to stay away from shows/games that might remind you of it.
2007-07-24 05:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Zau 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want to cut down?
Masturbation is a perfectly normal and healthy thing to do. In fact, studies show it helps to promote a healthy prostate. You don't have a finite limit of your "seed".
Unless it's affecting your social life, ie., staying home to masturbate rather than go out on a date, I wouldn't worry. If you want to cut back for religious reasons, you should speak to a minister.
Some tips for cutting back: Next time you want to masturbate, picture the ghost of Mother Teresa (or your father, ancestor, whoever) standing over your shoulder watching you debase yourself.
Just the thought of that is enough to make me go flaccid... and I wasn't even aroused.
2007-07-24 04:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
at least you don't want to do this, that's good. I understand that you can go nuts saying "I won't do it, I won't do it." and then you do it again. put up a siteblocker or something where it blocks certain sites, if it gets worse asks your parents what to do, it may be embarassing but they should know and you'll be happy that you asked later. only go on sites that don't have that stuff. best of luck! I'm sorry your stuck like that, don't give into temptation
2007-07-24 05:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by Zeppelin333 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try turning your computer off for a while and finding somethign else to do like running, playing a sport, videogames, gettign a girlfriend ( protected sex)
2007-07-24 04:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by ladybugs380 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of your bedroom pc, just use one in the common area.
2007-07-24 05:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by jck_kerouac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find another hobby. i say go jog at a local park or track. this should keep you away from not only your computer, but also from your house...
2007-07-24 05:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by greenfern 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u seem to have a problem why dont u not turn your computer on for a day no matter how much you want to.
2007-07-24 04:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shut down your internet connection.
2007-07-24 04:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by setsim 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋