my fiance left for 6 months for basic traning last week and i miss him so much... ive tried keeping my self busy and not letting my self think about it to much but it doesnt seem to work. what else is their?
2007-07-24 03:45:49 · 19 answers · asked by Kelly*Belly 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
the problem is, is that im in ohio and hes in oklahoma... and im only going to get to see him for his graduation.. :(:(
2007-07-24 03:50:04 · update #1
hes in the national guard
2007-07-24 03:50:41 · update #2
Try keeping yourself busy by writing him letters. You can keep in touch with him that way and also have something to look forward to. If you're not able to mail him the letters than just write them anyway and give them all to him when you see him on Graduation day. You can make lovey dovey video massages on youtube and tell him to watch them. You could take up a hobby or study an art. Do some kind of project just for him and give it to him as a present when he comes home.
2007-07-24 05:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny Afman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sure u have got other people you care about in life just hang around with them, also your fiance will be back it's not like he has gone forever so i think you should see the positive side of things and enjoy your self go shopping, do something u really want to do be spontaneous it might be hard him not being there but he will be back soon.
2007-07-24 10:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by freefaller 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey i been there done that , my hubby went to the marines 3 days after we were married , my goodness i read books went for walks . get urself out there where there is people ( a mall or park , u don;t have to spend money to go window shopping , i also got very interested in cooking , i made him a wonderful dinner when he got back , i embroidered , do puzzles , do anything girl just don;t let it get u down , he will be back b 4 u know it
2007-07-24 10:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by sugar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A pet is a good way to beat the blues. Consider getting a puppy or kitten to help fill the missing companionship.
2007-07-24 10:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by "Shades" 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change your routine. Volunteer on base. Reorganize. Do charity work at church. Work extra shifts. Spend time with family and friends. Make plans for when he returns and begin working on executing them. Get a puppy. Work at training it. Something small and cuddly.
2007-07-24 10:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree that you should write letters to him . i however disagree with keeping them. as a former soldier i would love hearing my name at mail call in basic. just remember he is going thru something very different right now and he misses you too.give him something to cherish each day.
2007-07-24 10:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by whiskywildcard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a job where you have to deal with alot of annoying people. When you finally get to go home, it will feel good to be alone.
2007-07-24 10:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by Cowboy C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
plan your wedding whiles hes away alot of girls cant do that when their fiance is around, so i would plan the wedding at least no one is their to bug you or maybe you could get a dog their cute too.
save a doggie!
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2007-07-24 10:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by [lacy] mixed chick!ANTI JONAS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with a friend. Go out and don't let yourself be fixated on someone.
2007-07-24 10:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by spool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could drink or do drugs or just find some activities to occupy yourself like have sex with other guys while he is away
2007-07-24 10:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by DAMN SILLY BILLY 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋