i was asked by my boyfriend how i lost my virginity and i went numb bcos although i could remember the first day i slept with m 1st boyfriend but im sure i felt no pain and no blood stain at all. whats the problem
2007-07-24 02:29:32 · 10 answers · asked by missnikky 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You lost your virginity when you first engaged in a sexual act, even if it wasn't intercourse. Whether or not you bled has nothing to do with it (some women never bleed anyway).
Here's an example: What if you had been having oral sex or anal sex for years - would you call yourself a "virgin" just because you didn't have natural intercourse? Of course not!
Innocence is lost first in the heart and mind and then the body follows.
2007-07-24 02:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by Veritas 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The evidence is the penis entering the vagina. Once this has happened - you have lost your virginity. Not everyone experiences pain or blood. I never have. If that was a pre-requisit of losing your virginity, then I have had an immaculate conceptions. I've never felt pain with blood while sleeping with someone and I'm currently 7 1/2 months pregnant!
2007-07-24 02:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by annyka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex vaginally then you are not a virgin. Some girls lose their hymen in normal activity prior to sex. If that is the case you most likely will not bleed or have alot of pain.
In other words, losing your virginity does not have to include pain and blood.
2007-07-29 01:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Karen E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone bleds their first time, and sometimes it doesn't hurt everyone. Everyones bodies are different, plus a guys size has a lot to do with it for the first time as well, plus if you used tampons and he wasn't much bigger than that then it wouldn't hurt that much.
2007-07-24 02:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
sometimes when a girl goes horse riding it brakes ur cherry i know its sounds weird but thats how mine broke and also a few of my friends so if u went horse riding that could of been the case.
2007-07-29 21:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Manaia's_mommy4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt bleed the first time either, actually it didnt really hurt at all. Everyones different.
2007-08-01 02:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by Rockstar ☆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your current boyfriend it is in the past and you'd rather not discuss it.
And , don't sleep with any one else until you get some sex education.
2007-07-24 02:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lilly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time a guys penis enters your vagina you have lost your virginity.
That is all there is to it.
2007-07-31 11:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a boys penis was inserted into your vagina, you are no longer a virgin. That is all. No blood needed, no pain needed. Just the penetration of a male penis into a female vagina.
2007-07-24 02:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by spottychan 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
when you losse it trust me you can feel it it hurts but not alot....and you bleed and are sore for some days....thats when you have lost it.
2007-07-28 09:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋