Be honest any kind of bully not just someone who beats you up also someone who called you names or took advantage of you anybody I just wanna know. I've had to deal with them all my life especially from where I grew up. Now I dust them off my shoulders. lol
2007-07-24 02:10:46 · 23 answers · asked by MrsValo 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I use to be a trouble maker (NOT A BULLY!!) I stop when I was in the 3rd grade and ever since then people tried to bully me into going back that way making funny of me everything. But I told myself I would do good so they eventually stop. There's alot of girls that hate on you for no reason I had to deal with that. This is my last year of highschool and hopefully they won't try to mess with me.
2007-07-24 02:29:09 · update #1
I've been bullied as long as I can remember. Even now, people feel like they have the right to talk to me in any tone they choose and yet, I get pounced on when I make the most simpering of remarks.
I've been beated up, spit on, clothes ripped, pushed down stairs, chewing gum in my hair, blackmailed, nearly set on fire, mugged ... silent phone calls.
Insulted, shouted at, barked at, had my decisions reversed (an aunt persuaded my parents that I was too useless and stupid to stay on into the sixth form and I would just be wasting everyone's time.
Why don't I fight back? It's all been goin on since I was about six years old .... 35 years of being told you're stupid/usless/wrong/an idiot etc takes its toll and I have very low self-esteem.
I know that I'm the bottom of the pile and everyone else is better than me .... something that's shocked the few people I've told.
2007-07-24 05:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by elflaeda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i was bullied phisically and emotionally when i was younger, this went on right up untill my late teens, but you know what, i went off to college and did several training courses, met and fell in love with my now hubby of 15 years, and i still live in the same community as the bullies, but i am like you i just brush them of my shoulders, i look at my life and theirs i am the one who is much happier, some of them don't have nice homes loving partners or a good job, i have all these and a clear concience that i never bullied anyone.xx
2007-07-24 02:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only one but a group of them. These were the girls I used to hang out with in high school. They were bad influence so I shyed away from them. Then they started taunting me. I had to face them everyday for 3 whole years of my life. But I survived. I'm 30 yrs old and I still have nightmares from time to time.
2007-07-24 02:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm lucky that I've never been bullied. also I'm quite a forceful character so wouldn't fall into that victim trap - I'm quite assertive and outspoken. Most of the time bullies are just stupid insecure people.
2007-07-24 02:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have and good on you for just shrugging it off. too many people take it too personal and end up getting realy down from it. I do the same as you but long time ago i didnt.
I dont have any in my life anymore though as i got rid
2007-07-24 02:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i had a lot of bullying probs wen i was younger, name calling, pinching, making fun of me, it all stopped wen i changed schools at the age of 13 and ive never been happier!
2007-07-24 02:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bullies should be treated harshly. They can make life for their victims a living hell. Bullies need to be expelled from school, and if their actions are particularly violent or organized, then they need to be charged with assault and treated as an adult.
2007-07-24 02:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Tom S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have to share office with one hun, we call her the pitbull! (details on my 360 blog!) Anyway when I first joined the company she made my life hell, tried to make me leave...I ended up getting really depressed and dreading work....Now I dont give a toss about her or he evil ways.... doesnt stop her trying though and makes my days in the office really hard hun x
2007-07-24 02:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Maria S © 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I only had one bully in my life. So young & yet so evil. I dealt with him eventually. Gave him a b**ch slapping he'll never forget. I never saw him again on the next semester.
2007-07-24 02:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Buddy Hodor 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes! Not only in Junior High (they all got their comeuppances in High School!! HAHA!!), but as an adult. That bully is called Racism.
2007-07-24 02:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by Kraziegurl79 ist ein Rock Star 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋