seriously!!!!! i posted a question about how my friend used to be thin and cute and she was like 100 lbs or something but now it looks like shes like 110-115 and its embarasing. everyone got like pissed that i dont wanna be seen with some fatty. what about me?? im the hottest girl in school and being seen with a fat girl could seriously mess up my life!!!! I love her 2 death okay and all im asking is that she lose some weight or we cant hang out. id want ppl to tell me if i got fat, so why is it so bad that i tell her????? im not a bad person. i love her to death, she's my bffe ...its just embarasing bein with her right now, and i cant be her friend til she gets skinny again. im worried abt her too, i dont want her to get teased. so seriously, why are ppl freakin out about that??
2007-07-24 01:21:52 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
weigh over 115 lbs?lolololol....ok 'massive hotty' ....you just sound massive to me. ha ha ha . i bet men would pick me over ur fatass anyday. go eat a twinkie
2007-07-24 01:35:46 · update #1
You are a terrible person. It is obvious that this person does not need you as a 'friend' if this is how you treat her. A true friend would be friends with someone on the basis of character and integrity. You need to take a long look at yourself.
2007-07-24 01:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Oh. My. Gosh. I am TIRED of people posting answers like, "You're beautiful; be proud of your curves," & all that. Sure, it's good to be "curvy" but there's a different between curvy and fat.
What exactly does your friend eat at lunch time? Maybe you should start packing some healthy food & try to influence her in a good way. Or you could invite her with a jog with you & say that we should stay in shape.
BUT, I must say that you are being seriously shallow too. Being seen with a fat girl? You do realize that your friend has only gained 10-15 pounds, right? What do you mean you can't be her friend. If you love your friend so much, you wouldn't give a &@%# about if she's big or not. If I went to your school, I wouldn't call you the hottest girl in school. I'd call you the biggest brat at school.
Oh, and princess poo poo? Yeah, your name DEFINETELY fits your answer.
2007-07-26 11:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lolaaaa! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are far more worst things to think about then someone else's weight. 110 -115 is not so bad. Come off that high horse girl friend. Your looks are not going to last forever. You said you love her I don't think you know what love is. Love does not discriminate. I'll bet if you were in a car accident and your face was badly injured your friend who has put on weight would be there for you she would not hesitate to walk down the hallway with you. And your other so call friends would not look at you or walk with you. How would you feel then? Trust, compassion, understanding, honesty, listening,
is part of what makes true friendship.
2007-07-24 01:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by gizmoe 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You obviously made her your friend because she was a good background artiste in the movie of your life. And now acc. to you, she doesnt fit the profile you are worried if the movie you are acting in (your life) suddenly looks like a Bgrade movie.
I am sorry to say friendships are based on how 2 people think, feel and understand. You are not doing any of those for your "bff". If she gets teased, you protect her, stand by her and go to the library or online to find out what is a healthy height-weight proportion.
In case all the above sounds too much for you, then just understand this..She should boycott you for not wanting to be seen with a low IQ friend.
2007-07-24 04:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Pinewind3 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Either your a grade A ***** or seriously messed up in the head!!! OR BOTH... is what i think. Your friend is better off without you! Im considered a massive hotty and extremely popular and im over that weight you decribed. I bet if you continue to act like this your friend will override you ..kick you to the kerb and be the most popular and cutest in school. Confidence and curves are what men want the most in a woman and to me you sound insecure if u cant face being seen with your "fat friend".. i wish her all the luck in finding a new mate!!! :Op
2007-07-24 01:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The "hottest girl in school"? More like the most shallow, superficial and mean-spirited, if you ask me! You seriously think your friend is "Fat" at 110-115 pounds? That's a joke!! And apparently, so is your idea of "friendship"!
Grow up and realize what friendship really is!! Instead of blowing her off, why aren't you defending her? Would she be there for you if you gained 20 pounds...or 60??
Lord, I am so thankful I'm not a self-absorbed teenager anymore!!
2007-07-24 01:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by GracieM 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Over 110 pounds is not overwieght unless you are like 4'2". If you decide to not be around your friend cus she is fat then you are the bad person. High school rep goes away once you graduate...she will remember your actions for the rest of her life. She will know you don't really see her as a freind if you kick her to the curb cus she is getting curves. I am almost 30 and wasn't the popluar girl in high school...girls like you made high school hell for me. But you know what, these girls I have recently seen picture of on myspace and they don't look so good anymore. They have kids and wrinkles and fat hips. Get over the skinny thing, it isn't healthy to see your bones when you stand infront of the mirror.
2007-07-24 01:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by MOMMY585 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
OH MY GOD GET OVER YOURSELF! I bet if I saw your picture, or you in real life, you would be horrendous! I don't care how you look, but you are a very ugly person okay! I bet theres millions of people hotter then you, so wake up! you';re nothing special! I bet your skinny 115 lb. friend ( the one that you said is fat) is prettier then you! She doesn't need you as a friend. She needs better friends.
2007-07-24 01:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kendra 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
for a 13 year old you have A LOT to learn! What do you think people you go to school with would think if they read this? they would prolly think your a heartless b*tch and then you wouldnt be the most popular girl in school anymore. I am pretty sure that you wont be the most popular by the time you graduate high school with this attitude. People dont like people like you. I'm glad I am not going to see you get out into the real world hahaha your up for a rude awakening.
2007-07-24 01:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
sorry, but you are a terrible friend.
you are extremely conceited.
if you really loved her that much, and she was your best friend,
you wouldn;t what she looked like.
its what's on the inside that counts.
and i and not saying that b/c i am fat, cuz i am not, i weigh 86 pounds.
and even if i weighed 300 pounds, my friends wudnt care.
and by the way, 115 pounds isn't very much.
get a life
2007-07-27 14:17:22 · answer #10 · answered by EccentricEmiiily. :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
little girl get off your so called pedestal you are not the hottest girl in school you are the ugliest. 100 lbs is under weight for anyone over 11 sorry to break it to your dumbass. 115 is a perfect weight for a thirteen year old girl
you are a disgusting vile little person that will end up all alone in adult hood cause no one and i mean no one will want anything to do with you. you are hateful and mean you want to dumb a girl you feel is fat and another you called ugly. good those girls are better off with out you, your parents need to knock you out. you are a little girl who is nothing but a stuck up slut and snob.
she also has two boyfriends read her past questions
2007-07-24 05:20:38 · answer #11 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋