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I try to be a good gentlemen, but somehow I end up staring at their breast... especially if their "cut" is a bit "revealing".

What should I do here? I know it is not polite for me, but I just can't avoid it....

2007-07-23 23:37:03 · 22 answers · asked by Professor Franklin 4 in Social Science Gender Studies

22 answers

We know you're gonna look, that's the point.
Any female who doesn't want the attention, needs to not accentuate her sexuality.
When I wear things like , tight fitting, low cut tops, short skirts and high heels,low rise jeans that allow my thong to show when I bend over.....I know all eyes are on me....its all a part of the master plan darlin, ya best believe that!

2007-07-24 04:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4 1

You just do, because you're supposed to be a grown-up. I have a real thing for men's pleasure trails. Something about that line of hair is just really hot for me. When a guy stretches, I can't help but look. But, as I am polite, I don't stare. Quick glance, trying to keep it hidden. Dude, we understand about being attracted to body parts and wanting to look. We're just demanding some basic common courtesy here.

And some women like to show a bit of cleavage because we like to feel sexy and beautiful. It's sort of like how you'll wear a nice shirt and some cologne, maybe. That doesn't give you a license to gawk, though. Be polite!

2007-07-24 07:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by random6x7 6 · 4 0

Hmmmm, maybe because society places alot of value on women having to be seen as sexy and feminine, if as a woman, you are not young, beautiful and have all the right proportions, you're nothing more than invisible...... so some girls/women try to flaunt the most obvious thing that's going to get attention and that's their breasts.
It's a hard thing to really say. On one hand if girls are flaunting it, then of course it's natural to look, but then on the other maybe just try and break it up a bit and look at the girl's face too :)

2007-07-24 07:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Shivers 6 · 5 0

To answer your initial question, take a look at the magazines, movie stars, singers and other role models and how they dress - this is the stuff we are bombarded with. So, if you're a very young woman, you think this is the way you're SUPPOSED to look. An even better question would be, why do males want it both ways? They WANT to look (voyeurism), they DO look (obviously, because sex sells), then ask - why do females tempt?

2007-07-27 23:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honey, most of us women have BREASTS, not breast. A little reveal is in very good taste but to let them all hang out would be overkill and would spoil the tease.

2007-07-24 09:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by Zenawoo 4 · 3 0

"get right" is correct, it is instinctive. I'm totally paraphrasing here so forgive me....

It is related to all of us having walked on all fours at one time. Our bottoms (yes, I said bottoms) used to be the primary sex object that was most viewed by our opposite sex counterparts. Now that we're all standing up we make our breasts look like butts for the same reason. It's all about what is at eye level.

2007-07-26 22:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Brooke 3 · 0 1

It's not your fault that you notice these things...lol...you're only human! But it's sad that girls think that their boobs are "assets" to be displayed for attention-getting purposes. I guess it has to do with the kind of society we live in.

2007-07-24 07:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 3 0

i wear a low cut tops cos I'm proud of my breasts and i would be disappointed if you didn't notice at all. but at the same time i dont want you to stare, probably unreasonable of me.

2007-07-24 11:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by sabrina 5 · 1 1

Basic distinction: look, don't stare. It's normal to take a peek, just don't focus on that. Weren't you supposed to get trained in high school? Once you reach 18 (on average), you're supposed to be able to control yourself, you know. Hormones are not raging as much as they used to, etc.

2007-07-24 09:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by Offkey 7 · 2 2

Take a cold shower. There is more about a woman than breasts.

2007-07-28 16:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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