By happy I mean, you wouldn't change a single thing about her, you are still insanely attracted to her, and although you may look at other women, you don't desire another woman
2007-07-23 22:41:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me just say that my hubby is happy with me...I was just wanting some info from other men to see if my hubby's weird or like alot of others. And when I say "change" something...I mean "make major changes that would totally change that person"...as in...make her someone else entirely
2007-07-23 23:07:44 · update #1
i see that you are up to no good. but, i will answer your question, as to not offend any of the goobers out there in yahoo land. i think my man is happy, either that, or he is acting often with a smile on his face.
now, get back to work.....lol
2007-07-24 08:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. I'm ready to be hit with the remarks from all the nay sayers out there that believe that there is no such thing. Anyone who actually believes that there is no such thing as a truly happy marriage is either a very small minded (stupid) person or is/has been in a terribly bad relationship. I have been married for more than 15 years and have never loved and been as happy with my wife as I am today. Granted, it takes certain people to achieve this, but it IS possible as we are the proof. The hardest thing that I had to deal with during my marriage was the relocation from Indiana to Alabama. This is something that she wanted and I still don't care much for this area, but we are here together and that is what really counts. For anybody who doubts my sincerity on this matter...Get a life! Preferably like mine.
2007-07-24 06:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well honestly i am not married but most of the people i know are only staying together because of the kids.as for me i am in a two year relation ship this year is going to make 3 years and i am very frustrated and i feel stifled its like everything i do i have to include my girl who spends more time at my home rather than her own its like we are already married don't get me wrong she is attractive and sweet but seeing her every day is boring the hell out of me,i know its sounds harsh but i don't think people should get married ever,even my parents and my aunts and uncles are miserable,i don't want that so i am not getting married ever.maybe it will work for a few people but majority of them are miserable deep down,they are just hiding it because of something they need from that partner mostly its money and sex.or as i stated before the kids,kids are mostly the reason why they still have married couples if it wasn't for the kids they would have been cheating and eventually break up.
2007-07-24 05:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Rendevous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my wife 17 years (married for 10). I know I love her more now then I ever did before. I might look at other women, I might even desire another (or two) of them, however I understand the difference between reality and fantasy. (I actually turned down a handful of offers- because I understand my limitations.)
What also keeps me honest is that I have two young daughters. I always think to myself that I have to be the type of husband I would want my daughters to marry. So I don't mess around- or put myself in situations for opportunities to happen.
Good luck!
2007-07-24 05:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by theman134 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am, and I'm not interested in any other woman. No offense ladies, but my wife is the ONLY woman that I have any desire for, sexually and just to be with. I love just sitting and looking at my wife, we have been married for 11 years, and she still makes feel like I did when I fell in love with her back when we met.
2007-07-24 07:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Every person has there diffrences and prefrences. To say i would not change a thing is too broad. Our diffrences compliment one another and thats a strength in a relationship.Still attracted, heck yeah, the more I get the more I want. Been married 19 yrs.
2007-07-24 05:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by seaking 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, NO ONE IS PERFECT.
The person who thinks they would not change a thing is living in fantacy. That is the reason you must enjoy the many things you are attracted to and work on the things you are not.
Tolerance and patience.
2007-07-24 06:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok if you don't want to change a single thing then no guy can say they are honestly happy with their wife by your definition of happy because no matter what the relationship there is always something a guy wants to change about his girl
2007-07-24 05:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good question!!! to vlady00- there should be more men out there like you! your wife is a lucky woman!
2007-07-24 06:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by who are you anyway?? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man may have a Ferrari but still dreams of an even faster car.
That said my my wife makes me hard as they day I met her.
When we met I was tall & slim, I am still tall :(
2007-07-24 05:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋