Have you ever been the rebound? or used a rebound? Anyone get hurt?
2007-07-23 19:45:09 · 20 answers · asked by Bunny Boiler 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
that is not fair, for me.
heal yourself first before getting to new relationship. only then you will enjoy the new friendship and you will find it easier to give your heart and make a commitment
2007-07-23 19:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have been in many relationships and some of them were rebound relationships- not intentionally rebound relationships- but all the same thats what it was. Didn't turn out good because the relationships didn't last long. Rebound relationships in my opinion aren't good for either person.
2007-07-24 02:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They do say all's fair in love and war. But really, people are used only with their own complicity. And it would depend on whether he's also using the relationship for his own purposes, whether they parallel yours or not.
And then, too, sometimes the rebound relationship turns out to be a very valuable one.
2007-07-24 02:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by auntb93 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rebounds are never fair. I was the reason one guy eventually went on rebound - the girl knew about it, still agreed and I feel so so sorry for her.
2007-07-24 02:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lighthouse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rebounders are ok. someone always gets hurt. just be careful who you choose for a rebounder, it has to be someone you KNOW you could never be with forever. dont pick someone you like, cuz it will never work in the long term.
2007-07-24 19:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I can't really say... I mean if you're REALLY heartbroken & if you feel that using another person to try & move on is the only cure then maybe. Cus you're desperate to just stop hurting and you just want all the pain to stop. You're not really in control of yourself at that point, you'd do anything in attempt to try & mend your heart.
2007-07-24 02:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is never fair to do that. Not only to that other person but yourself as well. You can't replace or use another person until you have healed from that other relationship first
2007-07-24 12:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jeannie ® 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we are here for different reason...sometimes its ok just to walk with another for a short time...then they move on..and both have learned something new..some meet and are not suppose to remain together forever...just to help each other along.or to get through a tough phase...a bit of TLC..or support...its not being used in this sense..its just taking whats there at the time..then moving on..to follow your true path
2007-07-24 02:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by sheru 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the feelings are true, it's not a 'rebound'.
2007-07-24 02:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by ßαßε 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not fair to anybody and yes, I must admit that when I was very young I used to do just that!!!
2007-07-24 02:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋