I am 18 and I wear a diaper. I don't use it, when I use the restroom I take it off and use the restroom just like underwear, but it is like a security blanket it me, nothing sexual it's not a fetish eww, it’s totally innocent, it's just emotional, I have seen help and they tell me for now if it's not hurting anyone then there is nothing wrong with it, but it hurts me. It’s easy for most people to say it’s weird and judge me harshly, because most people got the affection they should have when they were that age, but I really didn’t and that’s something we talked about. He thought that someday if I got security from someone else I might not have the need to wear them anymore, but it’s something has been ingrained in my subconscious. I’m not a bad person, I mean some guys prefer boxers, some briefs, I prefer disposable briefs, which are much more comfortable especially when sitting, to me it's just another piece of clothing, which I wish it wasn’t. I’ve honestly thought about suicide a lot because if I can’t quit I know it’s just going to ruin my life and that sometimes feels like the only answer. I think a lot like “why me” why did God give me this disorder. My real question is could any girl accept this, if she liked me and knew me for a few years before she found out, and she knew that I’ve seen a psychologist and I’m trying really hard to let it go?
2007-07-23 18:00:27 · 4 answers · asked by dsxjikwz 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i guess if i really loved u and i could tell u really loved me and u accepted anything weird about me, I'd be fine -- as long as if we went swimming u didn't have to wear it and u didn't have to wear it in the shower, tube, and bedroom...and if it weren't noticeable under clothing, ur heart would far surpass ur "problem" =]
2007-07-23 18:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, someone somewhere will accept you, especially if you treat her really nice and especially if you make a lot of money. However, I don't buy that you're trying really, really hard to let it go. What you're looking for is some way to NOT let it go. And, um, yes, it's a fetish if you have to do it or you'll kill yourself. The thing is, as you get older, it will be harder and harder to let it go. You need to work much harder at this, probably with an expert in fetishes and phobias. But no, it wont' ruin your life, it's just a choice that will make your life vastly more difficult.
2007-07-24 01:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so self-conscious. A lot of people have differences/problems, even though they may seem perfect. I think you would have to know the person pretty well to be able to tell them that. Good luck : )
2007-07-24 01:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by k888 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you don't need the diapers, don't wear them. you could go cold turkey. honestly though, wean yourself off of them. start wearing boxers/briefs when you go to bed and see how you like it. if it's enjoyable or you can tolerate it, keep 'em on. i like briefs. they're comfortable, loose and soft.
2007-07-24 02:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋