like i had with my b/f. (only 3 times) last time we had sex is one month before, (after 1and half year) and i am really scared now, please give honest answers plssssssssssssssss, plsssssss, plsssssssssssss, but i have heard many people saying that if u had 2-3 times, no body will come to know, but if more than that then there is possibilty, is that true, please help and give serious answers, i am an asian and these things realy big matters in asia,some people say if u 10times,no body will know. is that true
2007-07-23 17:57:06 · 10 answers · asked by broken heart 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Nope. The hymen thing is dumb. Most girls have already broken their hymen by the age of 10. Doing a cartwheel, riding a bike or a horse, or even running around for a while can break it.
Unless you have an STD (unlikely) there is no way a guy can tell wether or not you have had sex before. People may tell you that having lots of sex makes you "loose," but after you have sex, the muscles of your vagina just tighten up again.
Also, the guy you are planning to be with should be worrying a lot more about your pleasure than wether or not you are a virgin.
2007-07-23 18:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to know if you have had sex or not. It does not leave any scars or marks. The only visible sign you have had sex is when you hymen is gone, but many things can cause that so it is not a true indicator. There is nothing to worry about just go on as if nothing has happened.
2007-07-23 20:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by K K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way people will know is if you start acting really differently or you start telling people.... I can't imagine how else others can find out unless in asia people make a point of noticing you physically every day and then can tell slight variations/differences...
2007-07-23 18:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hymen is broken which is an indicator, but people break them all the time from stupid things like mike riding and kicking....
They cant tell unless you had sex the night before
2007-07-23 18:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
most active females, even virgins have a torn hymen. It is common in cheerleading and such. The hymen can be sewn back into place at a doctors office. Ask your Gynecologist. How many times you have had sex has nothing to do with it.
2007-07-23 18:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ok i dont realy under stand you qustion
i think you are afraid that people might know that you hade sex
thats a stuped thing to be afrade of
and no one can tell that you hade sex in less you tell them
or get nocked up
2007-07-23 18:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Benjamin R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no way anyone can know whether you have ever had sex unless you tell them.......or unless the person you had it with tells them
2007-07-23 18:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by artgal1285 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
No one can find out until you tell him. If you behave like you do not how to do sex. .
2007-07-23 18:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is a posibility u can find out no matter how many times u did
2007-07-23 18:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it really hurt the first time you had sex, then it is probably obvious,..... and I can't imagine the type of cheeleading you'd have to do to rip your hymen!!!!!
2007-07-23 18:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋