is her daddy...whant about when she has no daddy there for her?..no brothers?..nd all her life has seen her mom get hurt by men?..How am i suposed to trust any guy?..♥♥♥
2007-07-23 17:01:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I dont even know my fathers name (i have no reason to know about him if he doesnt want to know about me). I have a hard time trusting guys, too. As long as you have a good gay guy around you will be just fine. I dont know what I would do without my best friend.
2007-07-23 17:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Des 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well my dad definitely wasn't trustworthy. He cheated on my mom for years and was an all around jerk besides that. I didn't have any brothers either, but I learned to trust some men anyway. If you've seen your mom get hurt that many times, you've probably picked up on some of the clues that a guy isn't trustworthy. If not, think about what some of the early warning signs might have been with these guys. Once you're smart enough to weed out the losers, the guys that are left are probably mostly trustworthy. As long as you have enough faith in yourself to believe you deserve the best and don't settle for guys that don't pass the test, you should be fine.
2007-07-23 17:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, at least not until you get to know them and who they are. Men can be sneaky, when it comes to girls. That is even more true if they just want to sleep with her. That is why you should get to know someone before you trust them. If you trust to soon you will get hurt. If you do not trust then you will hurt the ones that do care about you. You will know when you meet a good man. He will be nice and respectful and care about you and what you say. He will show you that you can trust him. Just remember once you start seeing red flags pop up then you need to start to worry and if bad, get away.
2007-07-23 17:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is about risks. Trusting is hard I have issues with it myself, but you just have to put yourself out there and let yourself fall. Someone will catch you, I have no doubt in that. Not all guys cheat, and not all guys hurt women. I have been through the same struggle, but once you find that guy, it will all seem easy.
2007-07-23 17:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother was left alone to care for me, when I was 6 months old. My real Father was Stationed on another Island. She was then hurt by her first husband, my step Dad. He abused her for 8 years, until they divorced. So I had a hard time trusting Men. What helped me start trusting certain Men, was my being strong minded, and not allowing myself to be a victim in all this. I first got to know my mom's beaus, asked them a lot of questions, met their families, and I was always open minded. So when my mother got married a second time, I slowly got to know her husband, and eventually just trust him.
Though I had a tough exterior, I had a soft heart, and wanted my Mom to be happy.
It took years for that to happen, because of her past abuse, but with the help of God, she eventually was happy. Later on in my life, I had low self esteem, and allowed Men to hurt me too. I started to think I could never truly trust a man with my heart. But again with the help of the Bible, and becoming spiritually strong. I built up myself esteem, and said "enough is enough". I chose who I wanted to be with, I made a list of what I wanted, and pursued a man just like that. Because I was strong, and spiritual, this man eventually loved me back, and we have been married for over 17 years. You need to be trust worthy, in order to find a trust worthy man. Don't allow your self to be a victim, be strong minded, and stick to what you want to do in life.
Then get to know men out there, slowly but surely, for their are many good ones left out there. Just be friends. Just remember to not let your guard down right away, give it time. Plus build up your self esteem, for you don't need a man to make you a whole person.
2007-07-23 17:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are good guys out there. Don't judge all men because of the actions of a handful.
Find a man who loves his own mother, and you'll find a man who'll put his wife on the same pedestal. If he treats his own mother badly, he most likely will treat his wife worse.
2007-07-23 17:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Just be careful who you trust. If you meet a boy and a month later.. you re in love. Come on, you know its only leading to a broken heart.
2007-07-24 10:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust in your self and your insentience's if a person is doing bad things chances are he is not what you want than again if there is a person and he is doing good look at him twice ( There is no such thing as a riches person )
2007-07-23 17:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can trust guys as well only that you're afraid to trust.You'll find a good guy someday and you wouldn't be afraid to trust him.
2007-07-23 17:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. You need to be patience with your life. There are always the special person for everyone.
2007-07-23 17:06:21 · answer #10 · answered by jj1102 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋