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Why?

And why is serial monogamy a better method to sleep around than swinging or open marriage?

Thanks,

Flavio

2007-07-23 16:58:33 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

12 answers

Normally, I laugh at you or ignore you. This one, though, I have to answer.

Apparantly, its still wrong for a woman to go out and have a casual sexual experience. I hate the double standard. So, women date a man, sleep with him and move on. Why? Because complicating your life with a "relationship" is supposedly morally superior to just having casual sex. Its better to pretend love than to honestly admit its temporary lust according to society.

Also, most people would rather see a marriage in divorce court than to see it going to swingers conventions because it scares them. If you were married and loved your spouse but wanted more sexual partners and were miserable, you would seriously be scared and jealous of couples who understand and accept those sexual desires and decide to swing or have an open marriage.

2007-07-23 17:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0 0

Flavio, I must lead a very sheltered life but where are all these women who are sleeping around? I haven't met near the number that you have apparently. Perhaps that is because I am in a rural area. Are city women like this? Does the women and men for that matter, in more populated areas have the cheating issues that you are always talking about? Everyone here knows everyone else or are even relatives to them and besides we are so busy trying to survive that who has the time? The city people sure must have alot of leisure time on their hands. What do you say to that Flavio????

2007-07-23 18:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0 0

Each person has their own ideals on what is the most accepted, best relationship for them. I don't necessary think that serial monogamy is the way to go, but I believe that so many people fall into marriages with people they truly do not intend to spend the rest of their lives with, and then do not have the moral fibers to be honest and upfront and end the relationship. In turn, they sleep around and perpetuate the idea that it's ok to sleep around without the other half's consent...

It's really too bad society has such poor views on alternative relationships (polyamory, for instance). Perhaps one day such alternative lifestyles will stop being so taboo.

2007-07-23 17:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

LoL, serial monogamy is a well solution to experiment force a mate, however will also be extra situation than its valued at. I pick to be serially monogamous with men that experience competencies and feature one night time or informal matters with men that I am interested in however don't see as competencies associates. The train recounted above used to be how I met and married my moment husband. We are very joyful in combination on account that I found out via serial monogamous and informal relationships what I desired and to appreciate truly love as a substitute of simply chemistry.

2016-09-05 17:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by oldaker 4 · 0 0

Flavio, you seem to have some anger issue am I correct or is it that you see women in a different light to everyone else?

Well, whatever it is get over it already!

Here go the thumbs down!

2007-07-23 17:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

The 2 clauses in ur statement r contradictory.TO break it down serial monogamy is not morally acceptable and is definitely not recommended by women.

2007-07-23 17:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by msgiggly 2 · 0 0

Oooh, Flavio. Here we go again.

2007-07-23 17:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 0 0

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ahh i see you can spell women tonight

2007-07-23 17:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 · 0 0

flavio. dont they all do it . yes. in my opion?

2007-07-23 17:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0 1

This guy MUST be married to Wendy G. Thanks for the points there bud.

2007-07-23 17:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 1 0

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