my husband works for full 24 hrs. and rests for 24 hours. in short, he works every other day. and on his off days he is with me. i only get to sleep with him every other night. how can i make him look forward to his day off? we're newly weds...
2007-07-23 16:46:01 · 8 answers · asked by ching 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, that sounds like a tough situation, he must be a firefighter. My husband and I are in the same boat. Newlyweds. He works at a night club,so he doesn't get home until 4 or 5 in the morning and I go to work at 9. He wakes up at 12, and when I get home at 5:30, he leaves at 6. You just have to make sure that the time you do get to spend together is fufilling. I am sure he looks forward to his days off with you no matter what. But, if you want to spice it up, try buying a little something from Frederick's or Victoria's Secret. Or, on his day off you can buy tickets to a baseball game, or a concert. Just do fun things together. Hope I helped.
2007-07-23 16:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by sdgirljen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do it every other night? Well there's your problem right there. You guys do it so often that it's becoming routine. How about if you trade in 4 nights worth of average sex for 2 nights worth of WILD sex? Here are some tips......
* Sex isn't a race and you don't get points for making your husband climax as soon as possible. Try teasing him for a while before letting him.......ya know.
* Rent a porno and play monkey see / monkey do (if there's more than two people than pretend the 3rd party is there with you!)
* Tell him to call you by another girls name and try using a different voice! If you have a wig, wear it! Get into character! Do things YOU wouldn't normally do, but SHE would!
* Do you have a digital camera? (nuff said!)
2007-07-24 00:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did u ever think he might not actually be working all those hours?? he probably has a lady friend that excites him more then u do thats why he's gone so much he just can't spend that much time being around u ....ok lets say he is working all that time dont u think he wouldnt be able to keep his hands off u..... ur newlyweds and u need a way of figuring out how to put some excitement into ur nights omg bad sign
2007-07-24 04:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since you are newly married ( I saw your other question) anything you do, he will love. Make him a nice dinner, a bath, just go all out and treat him like a king. He will love the attention, but since he might be tired and let him relax.
2007-07-24 00:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook his favorite meals, cook his meal with lingerie on, call himwhileandworkand tell him you are getting frisky. Leave a note on the door telling him to go to a romantic hotel.
2007-07-23 23:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the granny panties, cook him dinner, clean your home, wash his clothes, and quit laying around watching soaps all day long.
2007-07-24 00:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
get into bed with him naked after he's had a good amout of sleep. play with yourself and tell him your thinking of him. complete the oral act.
2007-07-24 05:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by Bone Daddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sexy night gowns. in my opion/
2007-07-23 23:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋