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he's very cute..and i would like to get to know him..but have you ever heard of a teacher dating a student..no i am not a minor!
i am 20,and he's 26..but would a teacher date a student ..or they wouldn't??

2007-07-23 16:25:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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No, you would have to be a former student before he could even consider dating you. If he is 26 he may just be a graduate student that is teaching a class. If that is the case once you are no longer a student of his he may be able to. If he is a professor of the college then no, I mean here they don't even want the professors going out to like a strip club in this town because one of his students may work there. That is crazy but true. Either way you can not be his student, and in some cases you would have to Waite til you have graduated before you could date him. I would look some place else if you care about him at all. It could get him into some very deep trouble.

2007-07-23 16:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0 0

My mom was a graduate student taking one of my dad's classes, they started dating, and have been happily married for over thirty years. I once dated a professor at a university that I attended as a graduate student, and enjoyed the relationship. I think that it's ok to date him so long as you aren't taking any of his classes (and if you are, then I'd wait until the class is over before asking him out, and make sure that you don't take any more classes from him in the future). Some universities have policies on professor/student relations, so he might have to get permission from the administration--it's important that this doesn't hurt his career. Good luck.

2007-07-23 16:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by me 1 · 1 0

Most likely they would NOT date a student. Most colleges frown upon that sort of thing, it's not appropriate while he is your teacher. It's a conflict of interest and very unprofessional.

Wait until you finish the class, then you can get to know him better but while your a student in his class, it's a big no no.

2007-07-23 16:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0 0

If it's a normal school, he would have a clause in his contract that could cost him his job if he dated or had relations with an active student. You need to look elsewhere. With all those students, you are attracted to the authority figure. That says more about you than the question you asked.

2007-07-23 16:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by StaticTrap 3 · 0 0

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2016-10-09 07:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you're taking a course from him, then no, you shouldn't. If you're not in any of his classes and aren't going to be, then it probably would be ok seeing as you're both adults. Some colleges have rules against dating students but some don't... you might be able to get around it if you're not HIS student. . . I'm not sure, you'll have to figure that one out if you're really interested.

Check out this article, it's very interesting: http://collegeuniversity.suite101.com/article.cfm/dating_your_professor_or_ta

2007-07-23 16:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by April W 5 · 1 0

You should only do it if you're a big fan of seeing movies from the back row of the theater after it's been going for 10 minutes (and you like to meet your dates at the theater), or if you're a huge fan of dinners so low-lit you can't see your fork enter your mouth.

2007-07-23 16:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0 0

im not sure if it is allowed by that college or not but it is seen as unethical and professors are supposed to keep it professional. tell him how you feel and maybe see if he would be interested in dating outside of college but make sure no one finds out , you know how gossip is and it could land him in a lot of trouble. but what if you do go for it and he says no? you will have to face him for the rest of the time in college

2007-07-23 16:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by jezzika 3 · 0 0

My first year of college, I had a poli sci professor....he was maybe in his late 30s. He was +hot+.... I wanted it bad. I didn't pursue it, though, because first....I had a boyfriend at the time. Second, it just felt wrong.

BUT. Hindsight is always 20/20....and in retrospect, I definitely should've gone for it.

2007-07-23 16:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by tappetytap 3 · 0 0

It's not unheard of, but I suggest you wait until the semester is near over so that it doesn't harm the student-teacher relationship and so that there is no question of favoritism.

2007-07-23 16:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by hahahehe 2 · 0 0

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