2007-07-23 16:15:16 · 34 answers · asked by anglecakesalfred 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sadly yes - you need to talk to your husband
2007-07-23 16:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty Vomit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you sweetie you already know the answer to this question.
IF, and I mean IF, your man is not cheating on you now it is in the back of his mind. 9x's out of 10 that is usually a sign of cheating or getting ready to cheat.
Now if you want to believe that he is not cheating then you have some work to do.
Think about the last time you two had sex. How much participation did you put into it? Was it good to you and him? Did you both have fun? Did it feel like the first 10 or 20 times you had sex?
If you didn't say yes to all these questions then there just may be a problem...........
Always remember that where there is a problem there is a solution. Try your best. If your relationship don't work then move on and keep your head high.
2007-07-23 17:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by shaphrodra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would his friend give him a condom? That sounds fishy... ok lets say his friend did give it to him, was your husband there while the guy was having sex w/another girl? If the guy was cheating, why would he give it to a friend instead of hiding it in his car or shoe or anywhere? Guys don't give condoms to friends to hold because chances are that when the "friend" needs it, your husband it not going to be around. He is so caught caught caught. It is your husbands condom. Now you need to use your girl smarts and make him feel that he can tell you anything. Make him feel that you want to just know so you can work it out, men are stupid and easily tricked that way,,, get him drunk, make him feel comfortable and chances are you will get your answer straight from him. I have been there. Check his cell phone records.
2007-07-23 16:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I just answered one of your other questions and now I get it!! He is not holding it for a friend , that's just the stupidest line I've ever heard and it's been used on me also!! He's cheating and I would insist on using a condom with you now!! Actually I wouldn't even do anything with him God only knows what he could have picked up!! Good Luck life is too short to live it unhappily!!!
2007-07-23 17:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by MaRaNdA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have this concern in your heart you already know the answer. Ask yourself if you can forgive him for this and move on. the longer you stay in denial the longer you delay any resolution to this problem, whether to leaver are stay. Think about his response" holding it for a freind" why would you even need to hold someone else's condom. Doesn't make sense. Call a spade a spade and figure out what you are going to do if he is in fact cheating, which is a strong possibility. Find your inner strength and go on with your life it will make you stronger. Best Wishes and i hope the outcome is acceptable.
2007-07-23 16:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by concerned educator 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you would hold a condom for your friend, then No, he is not cheating.
If the idea of "holding a condom for a friend" sounds like a lame azz answer to you, then Yes, he most likely is cheating on you.
Hire someone to follow him for a week.
2007-07-23 16:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holding it for a friend? That is an excuse of two boys in high school for crying out loud. "I was holding it for tony so he wouldnt get in trouble with his mom and dad". really, think about this, if you two do not use condoms why on earth would he be holding a condom for a friend? What does this "friend" have to hid?
I would be suspious..
2007-07-23 20:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by giveu2tictacs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like a possibility. Think about it--can you think of a situation in which someone would ask you to HOLD a condom for him?? Sorry, sweetie. Sounds shady.
2007-07-23 16:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by angry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first has he lied before. u need to decide if u have trust for him is there any other evidence that he might be cheating. finding a condom on him when use don't use them is very odd though
2007-07-23 16:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who has friends hold condoms for them? That just sounds suspicious!
2007-07-23 16:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by E! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one way to find out for sure. Put some pin wholes in the condom and when someone pregnant knocks on the door you will know.
2007-07-23 16:20:26 · answer #11 · answered by RedWolf7374 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋