Here is the thing, me and my ex are good friends but he's married..we talk all the time, email and text almost everyday, but we don't ever hang out we ran into eachother at a party one night ( he wasn't w/the wife) and he told me if he had his way we would be together, also bring up the times and places that we've had sex, not just that but tells me that i'm at the top of his list what do you think?
2007-07-23 15:44:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like it's safe for him to flirt and reminiss. But don't count on him leaving his wife for you!!
2007-07-23 15:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by *star chick* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he has trouble with going down memory lanr and leaving out the memories that led to your divorce. I would ask yourself and him, why DID you get divorced? I doubt you both have resolved those issues. If all was so graet, then why are you not together now? Could he be experiencing some of the same issues with this current wife, and now he wants out of that situation as well? If you left him, what is your problem ? You must have some issues yourself,to have left, and perhaps you are both just meant to be friends. I know if I were married to him, I would have an issue with him going to parties without me and I would certainly wonder why my husband has a need to be talking to his ex. How would you feel if you were her? I wonder if he was talking to her while married to you. Cut it off and move on. You have been there and done it, and it didn't work. It won't next time either.
2007-07-23 15:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by heart&soul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At the top of his list for what - an affair? Is this the kind of man you would want in your life? He's married and still playing. Why are you texting him and emailing him every day? Does his wife know this? If he is that interested in you and wants you -tell him to divorce his wife so that you can be together. See what he says to that. Don't help him to hurt his wife. That is not fair. You wouldn't want someone to do that to you.
2007-07-23 15:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by Babycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I think he is confused and he does miss you. Don't you feel at all bad for his poor clueless wife though? I would try to not get too caught up in his life. I think you talking to him and texting him is messing with his head. He married that girl so you need to get out of his life. If you were in a relationship, do you think you would still be talking with your ex? And if you did, would your boyfriend know? He is cheating and I think you get some gratification in knowing you still have some power over him. You need to move on.
2007-07-23 15:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, read between the lines....
He is a man ,,, isn't he?????/// well any of them will test the water.. don't take kindness for love
He is YOUR EX FOR A REASON... can u remember that far back???
so what if he does want to get back? would u take him back,,? u divorced for a reason... u have been there, seen that, done that... don't go backward... move forward...
and for goodness sake.... WHY are u chatting now? that is in the past.... leave it there... move on.. U must be very lonely...
friends or not...
he wants another bed partner...
R u gonna give in? and for what to have ur heart broken again.... ? just think about it...
2007-07-23 15:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "wanna have fun"? You want to fool around with as many guys as you can while your still young and thats an option for you? I say get back together with him, you can still have fun in a relationship, as long as he isnt trying to control you, in which case I wouldnt take him back.
2016-04-01 10:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it !! What is the reason you broke up??? Throw out the old shoe!! I use to have that problem I throw the old shoe in the closet to pull it out later!LOL If it didn't work out the first time it won't the 2nd , 3rd or 4th!!
2007-07-23 15:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by MaRaNdA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They never leave the wife. Move on, have more respect for yourself. He is just playing you for your weaknesses and his selfishness. I would call him a player even if he is married.
2007-07-23 15:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he'd like a little adventure on the side.
He's married. To someone else.
But he'd like to do you again.
He doesn't want to leave the other woman, he just wants a little recreation.
2007-07-23 15:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by Will See 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just went through the exact same thing and when i finally said " Yeah i wanna do u too " then he said ' oh i cant my wife! "
2007-07-23 15:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋