i am the gurl who lives with her grand parents. and the black guy my bf is still around and i am datin him still so ya guys were wrong about him?
2007-07-23 15:32:41 · 40 answers · asked by miley's#1fan 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well, according to your previous question, you were still pregnant 6 days ago. And you have time to go on Y/A already, even with a new baby? Wow, you obviously cope extremely well under pressure. Seems you don't need our advice at all.
2007-07-23 15:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
obviously they gave you too much pain med when you were in labor. And, either you gave the baby up or your grand parents are taking care of it. No 13 yr old is going to have a baby and then the only thing they worry about is having sex again. He is still around because you are an easy piece. You need to worry more about growing up than having sex. I had my first child at 18 and it was the most difficult thing I have ever done. The father and I were married, but it was still no walk in the park. I couldn't imagine having a baby at 13. Go play with your baby dolls. I hope your grand parents got you put on birth control, preferably something other than the pill or patch so you can't forget to use it.
2007-07-23 15:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by hummi22689 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
....Just think if your child grows up and does the same thing you did, such as have a child at the age of 13 you could be a grandma at the age of 26, most people are not even parents at that age much less grandparents. Go get birthcontrol because I am sure it is not east raising that kid at the age of 13 and two wont make it any easier. Dont do what that girl said and use 2 condoms at once the rubber will rub and it will break easier.
2007-07-30 07:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by SunShine1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, you're too youthful to have a new child and you're saying which you're jealous of pregnant mothers to be so did you ever think of roughly all the flaws those mothers could desire to handle as quickly as the toddlers are born. it particularly is exciting to play with the toddlers yet they could desire to be appeared after interior the very extreme way choose to be bathed, Fed, Nappie replaced, taken to the medical doctors while ill, they want 24 hour care and you will possibly choose to scruffy lots for them because of the fact it would be all approximately them and not approximately you and what you opt for. You aslo say that; "there isn't any way IN HELL that i'm surely GONNA GET PREGNANT ", so why did you ask the question besides?
2016-10-09 07:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should grow up. If you do decide to have sex again, use birth control and condoms. You are only 13. You should not be having babies in the first place. Now you have a baby to take care of. That baby should be the first thing on your mind. You have a huge responsibility now. Go to a therapist.
2007-07-23 15:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kimba 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all: your 13, you shouldn't be having sex at all. Case and point: Your Kid that you have your grandparents taking care of.
Second: You're probably still going to have sex despite what I say, so go get yourself some protection, if he doesn't like condoms, go get female condomes on the net (b/c of american steriotypes and judgemental attitude they are no longer sold in stores last I looked). And go get yourself on a pill, any pill. That way not only will you not likely have another kid, but you'll also have the perk of less periods.
2007-07-31 12:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 13, live your life. A baby or STD's is to easy to get. If he loves you he will respect your body and decision. I know the pressure to have sex is hard but a baby is harder, and STD can cause alot of hurt, depression and harm. I wont tell you off like others but i will say this because at the end of the day it's still up to you, live your life and be a kid while you still can. Give yourself the respect you deserve. Tell him no, if he leaves you then he was never for you, for the right reasons anyway. good luck. And god -bless you.
2007-07-31 14:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by misha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it makes no sense telling you, NOT HAVE SEX AGAIN because as humans we are all tempted... Congrats on your baby, yea u are very young to have such a responsibility like that, but who knows it just might make you a really responsible person, but in the same sense, you got to protect yourself not just by a condom but use another form of protection birth control!!
Please stop having unprotected sex, because if you get an in curable STD you'd have to live with it, its very hard to find a man now who wont stray. So just keep true to yourself and your baby and everything will be fine..
Make an appointment to see your OBGYN or even your family doc and ask him/her to make out a perscription for you for birth control.
2007-07-23 16:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by Sasha b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is the baby now? Who is taking care of the baby? Who is supporting the baby.
Can you afford to have another one. Do you have the time the money. If you can't than you should not have sex without protection.
2007-07-31 14:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by jmarasco58 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you are still a child. Having sex does not make you an adult, and neither does having a boyfriend or a baby. Don't ruin your life, you're still so young. Enjoy your childhood!! If you have a baby, it's too late for your childhood, you need to live for your baby.
2007-07-23 15:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by JP 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋