ok... so there are three of us who WEREinseperable. We did everything together for about 3 years. well, we soon became distant. I am the one who thinks clear, one of them is more of a rebel and the other is a cheerleader who is more of a party person. we all have a year in between us, me in the middle. one graduated a year before me and the other is a senior this year. and soon, our differences got between us.
We stopped talking for a while and it was hard on me. There were the two I could always count on. We did EVERYTHING together. And we have recently started talking and are thinking of making plans together. is this smart? or will we just get hurt again?
2007-07-23 15:29:41 · 7 answers · asked by Michelle J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have one best friend, only one. I only say that to say that my friend and live 250 miles apart, we call each other, email each other and stay in touch as best we can.
We can talk for hours about nothing, or catch up on a missed month and a half in 5 minutes. Don't take a slight seperation as a sign that the friendship is over.
Everybody grows and changes, that's just a part of life, take the opportunity to enjoy your friends, you might find you aren't the only one nervous about it all
2007-07-23 15:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me. My two best friends we got together all the time. We graduated 7 years ago. and now we're lucky to talk on the phone twice a month, let alone see each other. I don't know what kind of plans your talking about.I know I tried to have as many friends as possible. But when i had kids I met new parents and became friends with them. So guess stay friends as long as possible, and if it happens again. I'm sure you'll make new ones.
2007-07-23 22:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by puttputtman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to build friendship.if we're not careful the foundation will crumble. you've found friends that will weather every storm.stick to it and overcome what trials the three of you encounter.each of you have different interest and will pursue different career changes will happen wether you like it or not.but those things will make your friendship more precious and worth saving.
2007-07-23 22:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey take this chance 2 become close again....and besides if u never give it a chance than NOTHING can come out of it. and if u guyz dont get as close than at least u gave it a chance. but u never kno, a really close friendship can result in ur risk. so yeah..juss ask urself, why not?
2007-07-23 22:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by ilovesoccer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a good idea, most likely they feel the same way as you do and want to get things back the way they were. you should be thankful that you have them, because you can never have too many friends
2007-07-23 22:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by crazy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...go ahead and hang out with them. Don't have big expectations that you guys will magically become best friends again. But those were your girls..you should definitely spend time with them.
2007-07-23 22:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it sounds like you guys have something special. Treasure it
2007-07-23 22:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by armandingo71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋