2007-07-23 15:13:28 · 15 answers · asked by Cali Gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No...You can think all you want. If you do it then you will have a problem.
2007-07-31 10:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by hksimmons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, cheating is cheating. Thinking about it and doing it is another, and if your thinking about it and decide to keep thinking on it then your more than likely to do it. Ide figure out what is lacking in your relationship that your in now and see if the relationship is worth keeping or if you should be single and be free so your not cheating and hurting people. Good luck ~ Sheky
2007-07-23 22:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by sheky r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not but if your thinking about cheating you should ask for a break so if you decide to go shopping you can and not feel bad about it guilt is B@#%*TCH your obviously missing something from your current relationship if you cant find it with the one your with find it in someone else just dont take the one your with on the ride with you to figure it out That would be wrong but finding your own happiness is always right.
2007-07-30 12:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by laflaca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your mind is elsewhere on another person, then you are not considering or caring about the relationship you already have. You are not wanting to cheat because you are happy in this relationship, I would assume, so why not end it and start from scratch. Fantasy shows little resemblance to reality, so be careful what you wish for.
2007-07-29 20:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by kip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are those fundamentalists that would say that te thought is as bad as the action. I disagree. What you feel and think is your own private business. What you DO - now there is another thing.
Don't cheat - it's always a lose/lose situation for all concerned.
If you don't want to be where you are - leave with compassion grace and dignity.
2007-07-30 13:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is mentaly cheating, and if you fantasize about it I think it would make it a lot more easy to do it physicaly.
There is nothing wrong with fantasizing, but if it gets you to where you are thinking of cheating that could be dangerous.
2007-07-23 22:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, If you really like your partner you shouldn't be having those thoughts in your mind at all.... When I was married i can honestly say that if any guy ever try to approach me it felt good to know that my heart belong to someone else... but unfortunately he was the one that cheated!!! no he cries to be with me and i dont want him
2007-07-31 15:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by wendy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say yes because in your mind you have already cheated on your bf/gf.
2007-07-23 22:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by adandbt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've always said that if you think about it, your just as guilty. i read that somewhere in the bible. but who knows, it's just not the same as actually cheating.
2007-07-31 05:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by syd o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes-
It is called cheating in your heart.
Emotionally, you already have, if you do this.
2007-07-23 22:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends, has the thought just crossed your mind or are you seriously thinking about someone. That is the difference.
2007-07-23 22:18:13 · answer #11 · answered by Lola76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋