Please be brutal!
2007-07-23 14:16:08 · 28 answers · asked by Shelby D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
YOU ARE SOO NOT A LOSER!!! I used to be just like you. SCHOOL CAME FIRST. It's not like I had a choice but I did it anyways. CARING about your grades, and POSSIBLY your future is NOT A BAD THING. But being socially active with other individuals, hopefully around your age, can be just as fun as being responsible. Try making time to socialize with others but don't let it jeopardize your grades. I would be PROUD if you were my child and I applaud you on your continuous efforts to a good education. But in the mean time, try to find some time for yourself and try to make some good friends. And hey in the long run, you could eventually meet some good study buddies that you can not only SHARE INTELLECTUAL THOUGHTS with, but you could also hang out and have fun with on the WEEKENDS!
2007-07-31 07:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by a girl unsure of the future 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl Ur not a loser..most of my friends like school and it always takes me a long time 2 do my homework 2...if ya wonna go 2 dances that's up 2 U 2 decide...I don't go 2 them either..cuz I don't know how 2 dance~lol...I don't have a bf either..and I haven't seen my bffs since the end of the school year...that's good that U like school....cuz ya get good grades and ya try...I try hard in school 2..this year since I'm gonna be a freshman I'm gonna have ALOT more homework and I'm gonna have 2 try even harder..as long as U have friends there 4 ya..ya can get threw anything.
2007-07-31 14:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are so not a loser!
It doesn't matter if you like to go to school, in elementary school I used to like it, and even now, SOMETIMES I like to go to school!(not during exams)
I'm not a homework fan, and I do take a bit of time to do my homework, about an hour or 2 to finish. My friend, Ashley, can't dance, so she never goes to any dances, and who cares if you don't have a boyfriend? I'm sure lots of people don't have BFs! Making a BFFs takes time, not just 2 millisecconds. Don't call yourself a "loser", cuz others might not think so, just be yourself!
2007-07-23 14:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sk8ter girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in shools yet , it is good to sudy, complet yor hmwrk.. first .
if you are educated with briliant academinc record you will have better chances of higher education and further bright jobs, profession also ..
But time management you have to learn..
You have to set priority
first shool, home work..
rest,
exercise,,
good food, avoid junk food, take fruits and healthy food
these are must for you now
Now look what you can cut
gossiping,
internet surfing,
looking at TV
watching moives
you can get more time from this , than go for Dance .. other wise get yourself better results in shcool
No dance will get you A+ in scholls
No BF, OR BFF will help
2007-07-29 01:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by krishprud@yahoo.co.in_KISHORLAL 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you're not.. you're just different from others.. and that doesn't make you a loser.. don't let people make you feel like you are one.. we are all have our distinct personalities.. we have different likes.. you love going to school, and there's nothing wrong with that.. everybody should feel that way about school, that way, the youth would be more focused on their education.. you do your homework.. meaning, you are responsible.. which should always be the case.. two-thumbs up for you.. ok, u don't go to dances.. maybe that's just not your thing.. and not having a bf or a bff is ok.. it takes time for other people to find the one we like or that one friend that sticks with you all through out.. be more outgoing, maybe that would make less insecure about being different.. sometimes we have to socialize with people to find the person that we are, or the person that we want to be.. but stick to being the good student that you are..
2007-07-30 07:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by sweet sexy thing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For this you want to beat yourself up? You are probably one of the most wisest of young people. you are not in a hurry to grow up...rather you are taking your time, and PREPARING for your future, so that you will have a good one. Pat yourself on the back a little, you deserve it. BTW, perhaps join a church group in your area...or join a club at school that interests you. Putting yourself out there a bit is also wise, as it exercises your social skills. (Important in the working world too). All the best...You are someone I admire and would like to know.
2007-07-29 05:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a loser if what you are doing makes you happy. Everyone has unique interests, and there are so many people that prefer studying to partying. Find people that share similar interests and you'll find a bff and maybe even a bf.
2007-07-23 15:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by sophia100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't a loser! but i think by calling yourself one you might be creating a self fulfilling prophecy. if school and work are your passion then its all good, you should be happy that you're doing what you enjoy.
you could go to a dance to see if you enjoy it, but if you don't it doenst mean anything, its just down to personal taste.
and as for a boyfriend or a best friend, don't fret, one day you will meet people who are just like you. who are into the same things, who you feel comfortable with, who make you happy...just be patient. i'm speaking from experience.
you'll be ok, just learn to love yourself :)
2007-07-23 14:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by angel_tigger 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl just caus you don't go to parties, dances, or yu don't have a bf or bff don't mean yur a loser a lot of people are in the same position as you if you still feel that way i'll be your bff
2007-07-31 07:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by hottie688 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is more to life than just getting good grades get out there and enjoy this time in your life it only happens once you dont get a second chance so take the leap and meet people , go places, do stuff you havent done it will make you a complete person.
2007-07-30 16:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋