I want to tell my best friend of eleven years that I am gay. But, she can be kind of close minded about certain things, like homosexuality. This is the only secret I have ever kept from her and it is killing me but, I'm afraid to tell her. What if she won't be my friend any more? Do you think I should tell her and risk it? or keep it a secret?
2007-07-23 13:47:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If she is really your friend, she will accept you. In fact you may be what changes her mind. I would think if she's known you 11 years, she'd have a clue.
2007-07-23 13:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Echoing what others have already said, if she isn't willing to accept you for being you, then she isn't worth having as a friend.
She might need some time to adjust, or she may already have her suspicions. If she simply cannot handle it, then wave goodbye to her and walk away.
2007-07-23 13:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you don't tell her it could tear you two apart. But, if you do tell her she could decide to walk away. It looks like neither option is good, so take some time to figure out which one you really want.
2007-07-23 16:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you dont tell her then you're not a very good friend (being that you keep something like this from her) If she cant take you as you are then she aint ya friend chica.
2007-07-23 14:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by Latina Diamond 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well if she can't accept you for you.. Then she is simply not a good friend. Sorry, but it's the truth. Real friends will accept their friends for who they are, not things like religion, sexuality..
2007-07-23 13:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
iif she is a true friend then she will accept you for who you really are and not let this come between your friendship and if you guys have been friends for eleven years then it should mean even more that she shouldnt let something liike that come betweenn your friendship
2007-07-23 13:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by *meghan*<3 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if she can't accept you, she's not really a friend - or a decent person of any kind.
2007-07-23 13:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
well if she's rlly ya frend it shouldn't matter what your orientation is she should still luv u and be ya friend
2007-07-23 13:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋