ok i have two friends and they make me laugh and stuff but they aren't true honest friends and keep stuff from me and i have another friend who is funny and nice to me but the other two wont talk to me if i talk to her....i still like the funny side of the 1st two but the nice girl is a rlly good friend...should i ignore the other two bad friends and stick with the nice one?
2007-07-23 13:24:28 · 19 answers · asked by hAiTiAn_CuTiE89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well dont trash the funny ones just yet !!! talk to them and just tell them that if u cant accept my friends then rnt one of my friends !!! it may change their mind and if it doesnt then they shouldnt be your friends any way becaus friends should always be will ing to make sacrifices for their friends !!! a friendship is like a balloon once u let go it is almost impssible to get back!!! GooD LucK
2007-07-23 13:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a hard choice to make. Dump the two so called funny friends who keep things from u because u said it Ur self they are not true friends plus u also said they will not talk to u if u talk the other funny friend( wouldn't that make them not so funny)
U shouldn't let anyone tell u ( aside from maybe Ur parents) who u can or can't hangout with, those girls who u say are funny and keep things from u are fakes and they are trying to control u because u laugh at them. Now they feel since she( thats U) laugh at us then she has to do what we say. And u sound like Ur ready to do so( that would not be smart ) these girls are bad news and that sweetie is nothing to laugh at
It's no contest u should hangout with the nice girl because it's just the best and smart choice to make because at least with the nice girl U will feel less stress and pressure on wondering if u can trust her, with those other two fake phoney fools u will always have to stuffer with pressure of wondering what are they keeping from me now or I wonder if I can be friends with someone?
Theyre' not Ur mom, dad, or boss so they can't tell u what to do and who to be with.
I hope U don't make a mistake u will regret.
Good Luck
2007-07-23 20:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm an expert on this one ive had some friends who were supposed to be my "best friends" then turned around talking about me so im there.... well first off i think you should hang out with the nice girl anyway cause it seems like you two want to be friends and it shouldnt matter to the others cause you like her and thats all that is important... another thing be careful with the other two because believe me you can tell them one thing and someone will already know about it.. if they get mad and no longer talk to you then they werent really good friends to begin with "true friends" dont get mad when you hang out with someone else they want to get to know them as well, so i say go ahead and do what you feel is right.
2007-07-23 20:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by kristie c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should hang out with the 1 nice girl. If she is more of a true friend, stick with her. Take the good, honest one(s), if the other 2 are more honest and open.
2007-07-23 20:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by jedisoldier195 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was raised by my Grandparents, a tad old fashioned but there truly was a lot of wisdom in what they said.... I just had to mature enough to realize it!! LOL!! Here is an old adage from the past that might help you get a grip on this. "If you have ONE true friend in your life you are lucky, more than that you might possibly be a fool!"
The meaning behind this is simple, true friends are hard to come by, WE can all say I have this friend or that friend, but when the crap hits the fan, how many of those "friends" are still there to help you clean up the splatters? Not just once or twice, we all know that craps happens to us all over and over and over again. But who of your "friends" can you count on to stay thru it all? No matter if it's ankle deep, knee deep, or OMG I am drowning!
True friends will be their till the bitter or rainbow end, they don't care , because a true friend LOVES you. This is why we should only marry a true friend. But we all make mistakes, and we all want to be loved. So time after time, and time after time we will continue to believe in the TRUE friend, and I will say again after my GP"s. If you find ONE in a lifetime you are truly one lucky S.O.B!
2007-07-23 20:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Fancygal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I used to have the EXACT same problem, i'm not kidding. And yes you should definately stick with the good frien, Trust me!!! They are goin to end up ruining your life, seriously..always stick with the honest friends...the other two probably talk about you behind your back without you even knowing it...seriously i feel so much better now that i dont talk to those old friends i used to have, they were nothing but a headache!
2007-07-23 20:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what you think is right. The first two friends of yours aren't true to you. Drop the two other friends, and keep your one special friend. She'll stick with you in the long run.
2007-07-23 20:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by Dailley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stick with the nice one. No one needs bad friends, even if they make you laugh and if they wont accept your other friend, then they're not even worth you considering giving up your nice friend!
2007-07-23 20:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always choose the nice friend. The other two arent friends if they keep stuff from you, and it shows their immaturity when they wont talk to you if you talk to the other friend. Good friends are hard to come by, you wont regret your decision.
2007-07-23 21:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by loverofmarc08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the two friends arent honest and true dont let them in on your personal life if thay are fun to be around just hang with them to have a good time...
2007-07-23 20:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by heather b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋