I WANT TO LOSE MY VIRGINITY AT A CERTAIN AGE BUT WHAT IF i CANT WAIT THAT LONG?

Question

WHEN? HOW? WHERE? WHO?

Answer 1

Those are questions that only you can answer. Don't just lose if for the sake of losing it because you may end up regretting it.

Answer 2

Want to hear a shocking answer form a real hound dog of a guy.....Don't be in a rush sugar.I've had a lotta sex in my life and I admit I plain LOVE it.But there are Lotsa other fun things in the world too believe you me.The Best advice I can ever give you is be patient and wait babe.You will soooooooooooo regret it the rest of your life if you run off and sleep with some yayhoo who only wants you for one thing (trust me i KNOW these things! I'm a guy remember) Half the reason men have such a bad rep with women is the fact that all most men want to do is **** you then leave you is TRUE.Do yourself a big big favor wait till you find the absolutely right guy,make damn sure it's what you want to do.Then wait for the right time,believe me your first time SHOULD be special.Then for God's sake have safe sex,the guy will most likely try to resist this but be adamant.(most guys hate condoms Lord knows i do) the last thing you need is a child tying you down at a young age or a VD (never had one a those Thank You Jesus) Sweetie at your(I'm assuming here) young age life should be enjoyed to the fullest trust me once ya get into your 40's it ain't always so kool no more.So PLZ don't rush off and do anything rash or silly you will regret later and think about what I've said here I wouldn't lead you wrong.and P.S. If you don't wanna listen to me listen to some (NOT ALL) of these other ppl sounds like good advice from most of em.

Answer 3

A better question is what if you can't find someoen you want to lose it to by the time you reach that age. It is always possible to say no, although not easy. Setting a particular age may be hard because what if the person you are with at that age isn't worthy of your virginity???? The key is finding the right guy. I wouldn't limit myself either way.... When it is right it is right. (Disclaimer)Of course for legal reasons, you should wait until you are of legal consenting age. Use All the possible protection you can, and make an informed decision.

Answer 4

You Shouldn't Be Planning When To Lose Your Virginity.....You Should Be Planning On Which College To Attend....What Movie You Want To Go Check Out With Your Girlfriends.....What Chore You're Going To Do Around The House To Help Your Parents Out And Show Appreciation...........etc. If You're Smart, You'll Hold Off On Sex Until You Are A Responsible Self Sufficient Adult.......Yea, Sex Is Great.......But You'll Have Plenty Of Time For That Later.............Masturbate If You Really Must............You Won't Get STDs Or Get Pregnant And Jeopardize Your Future.............

Answer 5

Why are you talking in terms of age, which is really somewhat unrealistic. And it should not be a matter of not being able to wait that long, but a question of are you ready for it not only physically but more importantly emotionally. In any case, I would strongly suggest that you wait until you are married but if you don't choose to wait then at least wait until you meet someone who is truly worthy of you and take contraceptive precautions. It sounds from your when how where who questions that you are not ready because when you are truly ready all those questions will fall into place and you will know the answers.

Answer 6

Putting a time limit on it only makes it seem like a rush. Wait until you find the right person and make it special. I rushed into it and lost it to a guy I thought I loved, but I really didn't. I met my husband a few months later and I wish I would've waited for him. But in the heat of the moment you sometimes forget all that. Being safe is the #1 thing if you can't wait, but a broken heart does hurt badly too.

Answer 7

Well first thing i disagree with sweetsunshine! You may wait until your married but that don't mean you wont regret it. I say you should never set a time or place, just let it happen when and where it feels right. I wondered the same things, but when the moment came I knew its what I wanted. Planning it and worrying about it would have ruined it.

Answer 8

Why? Do you think it is a race? Will someone give you a trophy? Will there be a party? Will you get special powers or privledges?
Bottomline is if you have all these questions you are not ready. And if you have to treat it like a check list you are not ready. Do not force it. Like most natural things in life when you are ready you will simply do it. Just like eating, using the restroom, breathing, walking, and any other natural phase a human can expierance.

Answer 9

My wife had several lovers through her life,she was 45 when she first got married to me.She told me looking back she wished she would have waited.Our girl friend agreed with her and they both told me the same reasons.There was no emotional content.They claim it was so much nicer once they were married.They regretted they couldn't offer that unique experience only to their husbands.
I hope this helps with your decision making.If it is any consultation I was a virgin Until I married my first wife.I wish I had had my first experience with My current wife I too feel Like I cheated her out of something special.

Answer 10

if you cant wait that long, then you are not determined to achieve that difficult task. The question is WHAT you want to achieve not WHEN? HOW? WHERE? or WHO? unless of course you mean to ask; HOW? WHERE? WHO? and WHEN you're suppose to lose your virginity.

Answer 11

Hi..
Whatever you do..don't lose to virginity to just anyone..I don't know how old your are..
But when you find Mr. Right..The man you intend to marry, the man you want to be your husband and the father of your children..What you do then, as a responsible adult..is up to you and the man you love, and who truly loves you!
Until then, save yourself for someone special... your true love..

My best to you!