I have to admit that I've been very dishonest to many people for years. I'm 28 yrs. old with no kids, and my family is very messed up. I have a younger sister that I've lead everyone to believe was my daughter because I want kids and can't have them. I also lied about ever being married because I always wanted to be married. My mom is mentally handicapped & has many kids & can't take care of them. My ex-boyfriend had a baby with my mother (her) & a baby boy, but she miscarried him. I'm surprised I told my friend this deep secret, & she said, "I understand why you were ashamed to tell. I don't think any less of you. You're still my # 1 best friend & I promise not to tell anyone."
I was molested a lot as a kid by my adopted family, & I didn't know it was wrong. But I think it was because I'm Hispanic & they're white. My adopted mom told her kids to go do the chores, meaning, "Go molest Kristina." & thanks to them, I can no longer have kids. I never had an STD, thank goodness!
2007-07-23 12:18:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It probably helped to finally speak to someone you can trust. I am so sorry you have been through all of this. Your adopted family will burn in hell for all they have done to you. Your ex-boyfriend was no prize either was he?
May God bless you and keep you safe now.
2007-07-23 12:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow I thought I had a rough childhood and life. I am so sorry. I had to see a doctor (psychatrist) about my issues. I hope that you don't let all this eat you up inside. I really suggest you see a doctor as well. If this is all for real it took real guts to put this up. I could never have done it even though the internet is so anonymous. You are lucky to have a friend this good, but I think that you should consult with a therapist.
2007-07-24 08:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im soooooo sorry!!!!!! i felt really bad when i read this.and trust your friend, you have been holding this in for how long now.i bet it feels great to get some of this off your chest.do you feel alittle better knowing that you told her or does it bother you more that you told her?
2007-07-23 20:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi wanna chat u
2007-07-23 19:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by zero_king 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋