A couple of my friends came to with this concern about there teenaged boys and I was really surprized by it....
They said there boys even like to wear diapers-goodnites to school sometimes...And most of all sleepovers and none of there boys are bedwetters as far as any of them know...
Two of my closer friends even said there boys sometimes have friends come over and play ps3 and they only wear there diapers and sometimes a t-shirt while playing there games...
The other parents said that they are very very worried there kids are gay because this is only a boy thing and they asked there teenaged boys who changes there diapers and they said they always change each others diapers and sometimes if they have to they even bath together to...
I am about 999% sure this is not a up and coming phase for "normal" teenaged boys to want to wear diapers...
But then again all teenagers are wierd and not really normal in anyway...
Please help me with this and if this is normal please get me some info..
2007-07-23 11:40:47 · 42 answers · asked by liltommy1979 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I know you want to help your friends and all but this isn't really your problem at this time. But then again, you don't want to turn your back on your friends.
Teenagers wearing diapers? Is this normal? Not in the general description of the word normal. But if you go out on the internet you will find all kinds of group pictures of teens and young adults wearing diapers, mostly at drinking parties and such so that they don't have ot keep going to the bathroom all the time.
The fact that teen boys would be wearing diapers in the way you described, I don't find it normal or all that common but then again I don't find it to be unusual just not something you see with every teen boy you see.
All teens are spreading their wings and feeling out what they can / cannot do, what they like / dislike, and what they want to do / not do for the rest of their lives. They experiment and I don't find this to be something out of the realm of normal experimentation. About bathing together? Any teen that is in high school an has gym class will bathe together so that in intself doesn't bother me but if they are touching and investigating each other's body then there could be a problem and the potential of being gay, and if he is? It isn't the end of the world.
Just get on the net and look around, do some research if you really want to help your friends, go at it with an open mind and since it isn't your son, you should be able to do it with a rational point of view.
Good luck.
2007-07-24 00:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I certainly would not consider this "normal" behavior. If my teenage son wanted to bath another teenage boy, I wold certainly think he was gay. The only reason I can think of for someone to want to wear a diaper while playing a video game is that they are too "into" the video game to stop and go to the bathroom. If this is the case...it is still certainly a problem, just of another sort. I have three teenage boys and have about 10 boys in and out of my house all the time, and I can tell you WITHOUT a doubt, this is NOT a trend!
2007-07-23 11:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by littlelanasue 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Teen Boys In Diapers
2016-10-02 00:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by weafer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
However it is weird, it is a fetish. I have heard of people dressing up like stuffed animals, wearing diapers and all kinds of weird stuff. Now the changing each other thing.... that might be where the gayness comes in. They might want to keep in mind that teenagers do really weird things! We all did stupid or weird stuff as teenagers. Maybe not that weird, but look at the world they live in now. It is WAY different than what most of us grew up in... and I'm only 25. I would say tell them to wait it out. The worst thing they could do is 'attack' their son. Tell him that he is being weird might just add to the problem. They should tell him that they understand that he is experimenting with different things and that they support his growth as a person and that they are always there to talk to if he has any questions. I would give it awhile and see if it passes. As long as it doesn't turn into agressive or disturbing behavior I might write it off as a phase. Hopefully one he will grow out of .... .quickly.
2007-07-23 11:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by sahmcclure 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
That has got to be the weirdest thing I've ever heard. Are you sure this person isn't lying to you? Because this sounds WAY too crazy too be true. I don't know of ANY teenage (13-18 years old) males that wear diapers and enjoy changing their friends' diapers. Personally I think these people are mentaly challenged or something.
2007-07-23 11:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I believe this is not as uncommon as people may think, I grew up wanting to wear diapers but never told anyone. I am not gay and in fact have a family. I believe that as society has become much more open about people of differences teens are being more open. Speaking from experience you don't have to encourage it but please do not belittle or shun your children for there differences. I have a great deal of guilt over having such a strong feeling to wear diapers and not being able to express them and then feeling like it must be wrong, I must be some sort of freak. I am getting over a fair amount of this but it has plagued me for years. Please just love your children and accept there differences, if you force one thing or another that will have more damage long term then you can probably imagine.
2007-07-29 14:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by cawilliams1041 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Gay Boys In Diapers
2016-12-29 10:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by tramble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gay diaper and urine fetish. serious at a teenage level because of the potential for bullying if it ever got out.
later on they will do what they will do and there is nothing you can do anyway.
it sounds sick and maybe it even is but if it is a gay sexual thing then confronting them without all the factscould be worse that leaving it allone.
If its your home they are using then consider yourself lucky they use the diapers.
2007-07-29 23:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like they are just being lazy to me, it is easier to wet themselves and chuck the diaper than miss out on something. I would stop buying them. If there is no medical need or they are not bedwetters there is definately an issue there.
2007-07-28 00:21:26 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I like wearing diapers, and have for as long as I can remeber. I used to want to wear them in the late 70's, early 80s, when all you could do is get them mail order. After experimenting with a guy, I wanted to wear diapers more and more. I guess I wear them anytime that I can, and I make up excuses to wear them. I am not lightly incontinent, but do not have the means to get all the diapers that I need. If you can help, please help me!
2007-07-27 04:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by Patrick 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋