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Okay...I've been so stupid and naive!!!
But plz don't judge me...just help me...
Okay well I has started going out with this new guy who had a girlfriend but he didn't want 2 b with her...so she's gone, n I become his girl...knowing that he HAS NO Sti's...I have sex with him once on the day of my last period last Monday but he pulled out but he had metioned that he could have came a little in me...so 2 days later we have sex and he comes in me but I take Plan B the next day.
The thing is, we were going to be together and move into our own place so if I got pregnant I didn't think much of it...I know it's stupid so plz don't say ne.thing...
Well I've taken plan b before but I never had nausea from it and so here I am Monday wondering if I'm pregnant because I'm so nauseated. But the thing is, he doesn't know how I feel right now and turns out he's gonna try n "make it work" with the other girl because she's pregnant!!
I can't reach him, but since I had sex way before day 14 of my

2007-07-23 11:04:43 · 20 answers · asked by brat 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

cycle...I'm wondering how possible it really is, but I do know that I don't have my period ever 28 days so I'm not sure!!!
I feel sick right now...maybe it's just worry...but I've been feeling this nausea in my stomach since Thursday and Idk...it got worse and now I can feel it...idk what I should do!!!
His brother told me he doesn't even wanna be with this girl, but he's just trying to make it work with her because he wants 2 b there for his child...but if you have 2 say your trying 2 make it work, it doesn't happen!!
So idk...should I just wait it out, or do you think there's a chance??
I just figured I couldn't because my period just ended last Monday!!!

2007-07-23 11:07:44 · update #1

I did not have sex with him when they were together by the way, we met when he was with her but he broke up with her and we started going out and than now that he knows she's pregnant he's trying to be there for his child...but he doesn't know about me yet...but like I said, I've taken plan b before and I've never had nausea, plus I had nausea a day before I even took plan b!! It's been 3 days since I took it and the nausea's worse...

2007-07-23 11:20:05 · update #2

20 answers

Well there's always that slight odd chance that you could be..
But considering it was so close to the end of your period and way before the "usual" ovulating time, I would say no.
Just stop paranoying yourself.
Try to relax.
Odds are you're not pregnant.

2007-07-23 11:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by ανєяу'ѕ мσмму 5 · 0 0

It is probably just the plan b, it can do weird stuff at weird times. I have taken it 3 times over the course of 7 years. The first time I slept for like 48 hours. The second time was like 4 years late and I was fine, and then this last time, which was 3 years later, I thought I was going to have to go and get another one because I threw up a couple times. So I would wait until you are supposed to get your period, and dont freak out if it is late, because the plan b can also either delay or make your period come early depending on the woman. If you get to be about a week late, take a home pregnancy test. If it comes out negative, wait a week and take another 1. If that comes out negative call for an appointment with a doctor to find out if you are pregnant, or what the hold up is on your period. Good luck sweetheart, and if you are going to have sex, maybe you should consult a doctor about getting on some type of regular birth control, that way you wont have to go through all this next time. Drop the guy, cause he sounds like a douche bag. It is up to you, but look at all the trouble he has caused you already. Not to mention he had a girlfriend when you all started to have sex, so I am sure he had sex with her while you all were together. I cant say for certain, but I can see a pattern here. Hope everything turns out alright, and good luck!

2007-07-23 11:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I know that nausea is a symptom of plan b. I've taken it before and experienced that. If you took it within 72 hours of having unprotected sex, then you should be okay. The only thing I can say is cross your fingers until you find out and try to get on some kind of birth control if you're not so there won't be any question in the future. Good luck.

2007-07-23 11:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Note to ones self never trust a guy when it comes to sex. You should have waited to see if he was going to stick around. Men will tell you anything to get some.

Plan B is not a contraceptive method, maybe you should look at going on the pill and making guys wear a condom. You will probably now have to wait until you miss your period to find out if you are pregnant but the stress of the situation and that could be making you feel ill now and if you keep stressing you could find that your period doesnt show up either.

Im sorry, Good Luck.

Chocolate is the best way to mend a broken heart.

2007-07-28 16:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0 0

First of all you NEED to stop taking the plan B. It is not healthy for your body to have to go through that all the time. Do you realize what you are doing to your body by taking the plan B? Once, maybe, is not harmful but I think you need to find another source of birth control. But anyway.....don't depend on him to help you with this baby, if you are pregnant. If he was willing to sleep with you when he was still with his last girlfriend then what makes you think you are any different? Sounds like you need to make yourself a more stable life and not depend on a man. You just got with this guy....I don't think that you should be thinking about living with him already. Apparently he is not thinking that way about you. Tell him how you feel just so he knows that you were expecting a relationship out of what happened, not just a booty call. At least then he will know...whether you are together or not.

2007-07-23 11:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well I knw how u feel i used vcf film b4 and then again after sex just to make sure lol and i took the morning after pill less than 24 hours after and i started to feel preganant I have one child already immediatly after takeing the pill about a day or so and i am now 3 months prego so best of luck u as for the other stuff I can also feel u my babys father is also MIA

2007-07-31 07:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by guess girl 209 2 · 1 0

First of all, I think it's stupid for him to try to be with the other girl only for his child. He can still be there for his child without having to be with her. YOU TELL HIM HE'S WITH YOU and that you're wondering if you're pregnant. If you have sex with him and have the courage of showing him your body then you should be strong enough to trust him about what's going on with you. Tell him how you feel and see what he says, if he comes up with lame excuse, you can still have a child without him...anyway, first of all you should stay calm until you think you're getting your next period, if you don't get it, then take a pregnancy test or go to the doctor. Don't stress over this because if you are your period could delay. Take it easy...good luck.

2007-07-30 07:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by Diana 5 · 0 0

Honey, you are a very confused girl. The problem is deeper than a questionable pregnancy. You've jumped into intimacy and are grasping at straws for a relationship. Now a little human being will enter a world unprepared for him.
Call a church offering counseling services and don't have sex with strangers.
My heart goes out to you.

2007-07-30 02:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Ju ju 6 · 2 0

Symptoms of pregnany usually don't occur until after you miss your period, for me personally 5-6weeks from the last period. If you think you could be pregnant take a pregnancy test.

2007-07-23 11:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by BopMom 3 · 0 0

Seeing as though you took the plan B it could just be a reaction. Alos, its probably just your nerves since your new "relationship" backfired and he is back with the other girl. Just wait, take a test in a week and go from there. Wrap it up next time or get b/c please.

2007-07-28 10:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by .:Adrians' So Handsome:. 3 · 0 0

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