If so, what happened?
2007-07-23 10:57:25 · 21 answers · asked by hmmmm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl's aren't the only ones that do that.
2007-07-23 11:00:34 · update #1
oh i like this question,yes i have he was a total man slut not the best guy to date right.. well we did and believe it or not there can be a moment when one can change. he even slept with my boss but that was before me and everyone said stay away. but sometimes its a risk you take and you never know what will happen. just some advice be careful and honest. understand one before labeling. sometimes its what you need someone completely different.
2007-07-23 11:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by Megan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You betcha! I am a consistently bad judge of character. The men I fall for are all very good liars or they simply can't deliver on the promises they make.
There is something to be learned from each failed relationship, however. Sometimes it may take years to see, but you will. It may take those few years to SEE that they were wrong and realize why. You may feel like you lost "Ms. Right for quite some time, but when you are able to the reason will show it's ugly head. More often than not, you will relize you knew it all along.
2007-07-23 11:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by lissabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have fallen for the wrong person. What happened was I made excuses for how wrong he treated me and not too mention when things did not work I blamed myself.
I think overall I was so determined to be with him was because he was so bad for me. He made me do things that I normally would not and the fact that I allowed him to emotionally cripple me in a way as far as letting him lead me to believe that I needed him.
I however woke up one morning and realized he was a piece of **** and that I did not need him or his bull.
Charlie
2007-07-23 11:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was newly divorced & was looking for someone to love me. I met a guy & thought he was just what I was l wanted in my life. I mistook his being controlling as being very protective. I caught him in a lie in the first week that we met, but wanted to always find the good in him, so I never confronted him. I am a very intelligent gal, but somehow, I allowed this man to play mind control with me. I have always been strong & very independent but I guess this man saw that I was a bit vulnerable, & he latched right on. He started talking so mean to me & I knew then he was up to something & wanted to break it off with me, so I beat him to it. Hindsight is 20/20 & I wonder how I could have been blindsided by this man. I got some therapy, & found out why I allowed him to play mind games with me. I'm glad I got the help I needed. I have since met a very wonderful man who truly loves me for who I am & would never ever try to control me, even for a minute. I chalk it all up to lessons learned. I'm a much stronger person for having gone through such a tumultuous time in my life. Men are out there who like to prey on vulnerable women. Be careful.
2007-07-23 11:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 31, it happened 2x in my life. i'll try to give you the brief version:
1st GUY
- i was 15, Catholic school girl, niave, sex drive, he was "bad boy" bad grades, attitude, i was straight As.
- i got pregnant at 16 1/2, we made it til my son was a month old, then i woke up & dumped him
- so, what happened? single mom.
2nd GUY:
- had been friends for almost 2 years, knew one another while i was pregnant even
- started dating when son was few months old
- he's self-centered (different from selfish), passive-aggressive & none-emotional -- i'm the total opposite
- cheated on me when together 1 year
- guess i didnt think anyone else would want a single mom & he LOVED my son
- eventually we got married in 2000 (7 years later) -- guess cus that's the next step when you've figured out everything else to salvage a miserable relationship (pathetic i know, i just HATE the hindsight thing!)
- separated in 2004
- i became happier than i had been in FOREVER
- met love of my LIFE in 2006
- divorce final 2007
RESULT: HAPPINESS =)
2007-07-23 11:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell for a few wrong people. I got my heart broken that's what happened. But I got over it --- I moved on. When I finally found the right person --- I married him.
2007-07-23 11:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have, repeatedly. Both times they were bossy types who needed an amusing guy to adorn themselves with, and I fell for them because I like bossy types (I find them amusing, until I find out they are actually really like that - then I'm disappointed).
I just ditched them in the end.
They may not even have noticed.
2007-07-23 11:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Tahini Classic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i fell for a LOSER! i say that with emphasis because i know not what i saw in him. I'm a smart beautiful girl...not a big head just the truth... and he tried to manipulate me, control me and was just plain mean to me. he still calls me to this day to try and harass me....too bad I'm stronger and smarter than him though. i don't know, we all want what we can't have and then when we have it we don't want it!
2007-07-23 11:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Gonzo's Wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, I am now divorced three times. And, they probably also fell for the wrong person.
2007-07-23 10:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by jboatright57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i fell for the wrong guy he ended up being a total *** we were off and on for like a year and then we broke things off permently and we were still friends for awhile there but then hed get pissed at me for like everything and would throw things at me he was a jerk torwards me,my friends told me to get over him but it was kinda hard cuz i still liked him even after we broke up but love just sucks like that
2007-07-23 11:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋