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The condom broke during sex and 14 days later we tested to see if she was pregnant since she had yet to have her period. The test was negative but she still didnt have her period by monday so she went to the doctor. She said the doctor test came up positive. I wasnt present and I dont trust her. She is under a lot of stress and lonely. I know its wrong but I think she is trying to pull the old "keep-a-man baby."

2007-07-23 10:53:43 · 14 answers · asked by Hordaloven 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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Yes, it's possible. Mine didn't come back positive until I was already 7 weeks pregnant. I had already missed 2 periods. Sometimes it just takes awhile for a test to come back positive. It did for me.

2007-07-23 11:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Damon's mommy 5 · 0 0

I have had a home test come out negative and a doctor test positive. My daughter is now 16 years old. It happens. If you feel this way, you should talk to her. If you are worried about making her mad, just tell her you would like to go to her doctor's appointments with you because you want to hear the heartbeat or you want to be involved in the whole experience.

I have to ask you this though. Why are you having sex with a woman you don't trust? If you aren't in it for the long haul, you shouldn't be having sex. If you don't trust her to be honest about this, can you trust her about anything else? Sex has major consequences and you should be able to trust your partner.

Best of luck to you.

2007-07-23 11:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by MJL613 3 · 1 0

Best way for you to know is go with her to have another test done, or wait until she is due for her period and have her take another home pregnancy test. If it came out positive at the doctors (and he did a urine test) it should come out positive if she takes another at home test. Granted at the doctors they can do a blood draw and see if the hormone is present in the blood. If it is present in the blood, it may still be too soon to tell by urine. The blood can have the HCG hormone in it within a few days of implantation, whereas it takes longer for urine. Whatever you do, include yourself into it, that way you can see for yourself and know she isn't lying.

2007-07-23 11:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa H 2 · 1 0

this could be a challenge the place she desires to make certain a doctor. If she's been in soreness and continues to be no longer getting her menses after taking an i-pill 25 days in the past, something isn't suited. i does no longer be so in touch a pair of being pregnant as much as that something is going on in her reproductive equipment that demands scientific interest. Please get her an appointment to a medical institution or gynecologist immediately so she gets a suited examination completed. good success.

2016-10-09 07:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by nicholls 4 · 0 0

It's possible. It happened to me. I had to get a blood test, because I was sure I was pregnant. If she bought a cheap test, that might be the reason. You can always have a paternity test later to find out.

2007-07-23 11:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kat H 6 · 0 0

i would definatly ask her to take another one. If i were her i would want the supposed father to be there and witness that fact with me, and if he wasn't i would be understanding toward the fact that he would want me to take anythere one for his knowing.
I now i've missed my period for over 10 days and later that week it came, but the fact that i was stressed out kept it from coming, so that could be a part of it.
if you really don't want to ask her and you think she is lying to you, then you can always go the gross way and check the trash can for...you know. hope this help ya out!

2007-07-23 11:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by PETEPUMA 3 · 0 0

well it seems like shes lying bcuz 14 days is an awfully short time to tell if ur pregnant!!! soo y dont u guys go together to the doctor and see for urself!!! and she mite even get her period the first month even if shes pregnant so get a test and wait a full month b4 u take it again to make sure!!!

2007-07-23 10:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by dustinsgirl89 2 · 0 1

if you don't trust her that much then tell her to get another home test so that you can keep it for a souvenir. Of course you are going behind her back, but it sounds like she is lieing to you anyway. Why are you with her if you feel like you can't trust what she says?

2007-07-23 11:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

almost all doctors now send you for a blood test to confirm a pregnancy. if you are unsure she is telling the truth, ask her for a confirmation letter from the doctor. if she doesn't bring you one, she's not pregnant.
don't worry about hurting her feelings, this has to do with your life too!!

2007-07-23 11:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by alcyone7485 2 · 1 0

have her do a home test in front of you. and ask for the confirmation paper from the doctor.

2007-07-23 10:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0 0

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