ok, my best friends name is mandy and i have known her since i was able to walk because are parents work together and last school year we really didnt talk because she was in a diffrent pod so i left her alone and she made some really snoby friends so this school year she was acting really strange when i was hanging with her @ recess we were talking bout freinds and her b**** friend amy said somthin bout friends and i said ya mandys my bff and she said well what if mandy dosnt like you and i said well she dos and amy said well what if mandy dosnt want to be your freind and then there class got called and she and amy ran off lauaphing just like me and mandy used to do and when i asked her why she didnt want to be friends anymore she said i was following her around and now its the summer so i dont even see her what sould i do this school year to get her back? and by the way i already given her 3 full lenth notes and that dose not work
2007-07-23 10:39:45 · 10 answers · asked by lildiva2109 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's sad, but people change. Just start hanging out with new people; if Mandy doesn't want to be friends with you anymore because she doesn't think you're "cool" enough, she's not the kind of person you'll want as your best friend as you get older. It'll be hard to move on from your best friend since toddlerhood, but make new friends, and you'll be happier. Trust me when I say that you do not want to be one of the hangers-on of the popular clique. Be your own person, choose your own friends, and don't waste your time on people who don't want you to fit in with them.
2007-07-23 10:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by csbp029 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force her to be your friend. How is getting her back going to solve anything? It's obvious you are very young but losing Mandy is not the end of the world. Make some new friends and don't worry about her or Amy.
2007-07-23 11:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly even so early in life people can be really cruel, you don't need a friend like her. Make some new friends because you seem nice and she doesn't know what shes missing out on. After so many years of being best friends and shes treating you harshly its better to say goodbye. Sooner or later she might find out who her true friends are! Stay in school and Good luck!
2007-07-23 10:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweatheart, she isn't your friend. Sorry, I know that's not what you want to hear. Popularity is a very fickle thing. One year you're hot, the next you're not. A true friend wouldn't bail on you just to be popular. My advice is forget about her. Make new friends. When she sees you having a good time with another friend, just like she used to, she may come crawling back. Then it'll be up to you whether or not to be friends.
2007-07-23 10:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Pet Luvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her go. She's obviously not worth this much hassle if she'll just dump you like that. Maybe she'll realize after a while what she threw away, but if she doesn't there's no point in trying to convince her.
Sorry your friend turned into someone else, but it's time for you to move on.
2007-07-23 10:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh oh. If that's the way she's going to act, I don't think you should be friends with her. Sometimes you can 'grow out' of friendships. You have become more mature, and apparently she has become less mature. She has a blatant disregard for your feelings, and that's not what friends are for.
2007-07-23 11:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Caffeinated Doughnut 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Evidentally she's no longer a real pal or she does not pass away you out. this is by no skill okay to try this on your pal. If I have been you if she keeps to pass away you out i could merely locate different acquaintances!!! good success~
2016-10-22 11:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem like a nice girl who needs a good friend desperately,
forget her,
shes gonna understand what it means when a good friend leaves you,
move on, and make new friends who appreciate you!
2007-07-23 10:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares if she is leaving you to be popular she was never your true friend move on and try to find someone else who you can talk to....
2007-07-23 10:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by cutiepie6300 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go she isn't a real friend.
2007-07-23 10:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋